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Hi yer,

I have just read a moving Post in the SO Forum. It concerns a womans anxiety because her Crossdressing husband is going over the score.

I sympathise strongly with this woman, she has given her man her continued love and support inspite of his obsessive unmanly pursuits.

Lets face it, we want their love and support, but maybe we demand too much. Its important to be balanced and reach a comprimise.

If you love your wife then give her more real man days, and maybe she will feel happier to support you in your femme days.



Kerri

Hi Kerry,

I do think for the most part CD'rs do go overboard about their demands (especially at the beginning of acceptance of their CD'd self). I've heard of stories of men getting dressed and then sitting down with a beer, with their legs open, and not doing anything other than being made up. Like any GG is going to go, "You're so right this is such a different side of you."

Great advice Kerry!!!

Beauty

Kerry wrote:Hi yer,

I have just read a moving Post in the SO Forum. It concerns a womans anxiety because her Crossdressing husband is going over the score.
Kerri

I normally stay out of the SO forums but accidently entered "coping for SOs" by mistake , I thought it was " coping for CDs" .
I noticed my wife KirdySO had a message " why do I hate it now " and read it, the message just about threw me off the chair .
I was totally shocked and at the time my wife was away in Sydney with the kids , I had a long look at myself and made a few decissions about the future.

I did not dress while she was away and couldn't understand my disinterest, although I was looking forward to the next photosession .
I concluded that my CDing is fuelled by my photographic obsession , thus stop taking photos of myself means dressing up less and not requiring my daughters involvment to take the photos.

I will one day take some more photos but I'm no longer doing regular photosessions , this will mean dressing up less and spending more man hours .
I have been over the top , I cant stop CDing , but I can work to make things easier on my wife.