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Has anyone allowed the time of year plus CDing and other pressures to do something to themselves that would in hopes at the time and in that narrow minded way kill the CD within.

I have read alot about stress and the time of year as of late. That it is busier for the stress hot lines. How depression over money and other things cause us to do there unthinkable in most minds.

Wish I knew how to do one of those polls.

How many have thought about cutting it out of there heart?

How many have actual attempted too.

How many times and when and how often.

Gelinda

I am wondering what would make you think that we would want to?
Your post dose not apply to me, I just don't wish to live in that kind of a hell.

Merry Christmas:

Love Darlene.

Gelinda wrote:Has anyone allowed the time of year plus CDing and other pressures to do something to themselves that would in hopes at the time and in that narrow minded way kill the CD within.

I have read alot about stress and the time of year as of late. That it is busier for the stress hot lines. How depression over money and other things cause us to do there unthinkable in most minds.

Wish I knew how to do one of those polls.

How many have thought about cutting it out of there heart?

How many have actual attempted too.

How many times and when and how often.

Gelinda

Hi Gelinda,

I've thought of stopping before. When I was younger I so didn't want to be this way. Now I like me for who I am. That wasn't an easy or quick road though.

I've thrown things out multiple times. Not sure how many, but I haven't thrown anything out since the late 80s, I believe.

Beauty

Hi all,

I find this holiday season that with all of the activities, I'm not dressing as often as I would like to, but it's not reducing my pleasure when I do get a chance.

I may be a little different from some CDs in that I started in my teens, stopped when I started college, even though my bedroom was still a storage area for my mother's extra clothing. I didn't take advantage of the opportunity during my 2 years of community college, then college breaks, and then living there almost 1 1/2 years after graduation before moving out.

I didn't get the crossdressing urge again until 2 1/2 years ago, a break of 33 years, and told my wife, who accepts supports me. I'm one of the fortunate ones!

I don't really want to stop, and haven't felt a need to purge. I sometimes donate some things I don't wear anymore to a rummage sale or thrift store, and discard worn-out items, but it's only a small part of my femme wardrobe at any one time, and I always replenish them.

I don't remember posting polls, because with the wide diversity of members, I doubt I could select a definite choice that would suit each and every member who would care to respond. I think that posting an open ended question invites more individual views and more discussions covering even more ground than I would have originally considered.

OK, end of essay.

Jadeanne