Ran into my Ex at a club
Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2004 10:12 am
Hi all!
Recently I was out on a Saturday night with some friends and walked into my favorite club, the drag show had already started so I took a seat toward the back. I looked up and saw someone waving madly to me, I swore it looked like my ex stepdaughter but thought "no way, she lives 150 miles away and what would she be doing at a drag bar" The girl then stood up and came over to me and sure enough, it was her. She then said that her mom (my ex) was there too. Now my ex knew about Stef and actually liked me better in girl mode but her daughter had never seen me in person as Stef. This was just strange for me, mainly because I was not expecting it.
I went and sat with them. They had brought a group of which I knew everyone and they didn't know about me. I assumed that they knew who I was cause my step daughter has never been known to keep a secret so I started talking to them. They looked at me like "Do I know you?" and slowly they made the connection. In hindsight, they're reaction is hilarious because their mouth dropped open and they were like "Are you who I think you are?" I just smiled and the general reaction was "Oh My GOD!"
My ex was a widow when we met but she had remained close to her husband's family and her 70 year old mother in law was there as well. She did not have a clue who I was. Like I said earlier, I just assumed everyone knew who I was. I started talking to her and she turned to my ex and asked who I was, when she was told the look on her face was priceless!! She then told me that she had been told about me but how I looked was nothing like what she had imagined. She said she expected to see a guy in a dress not an attractive lady. I just had to hug her neck!!
It was a good night, just strange for me. My friends at the club had to laugh, the main comment was "If it's gonna happen to anyone, It's gonna happen to Stef"
Hugs,
Stef
Recently I was out on a Saturday night with some friends and walked into my favorite club, the drag show had already started so I took a seat toward the back. I looked up and saw someone waving madly to me, I swore it looked like my ex stepdaughter but thought "no way, she lives 150 miles away and what would she be doing at a drag bar" The girl then stood up and came over to me and sure enough, it was her. She then said that her mom (my ex) was there too. Now my ex knew about Stef and actually liked me better in girl mode but her daughter had never seen me in person as Stef. This was just strange for me, mainly because I was not expecting it.
I went and sat with them. They had brought a group of which I knew everyone and they didn't know about me. I assumed that they knew who I was cause my step daughter has never been known to keep a secret so I started talking to them. They looked at me like "Do I know you?" and slowly they made the connection. In hindsight, they're reaction is hilarious because their mouth dropped open and they were like "Are you who I think you are?" I just smiled and the general reaction was "Oh My GOD!"
My ex was a widow when we met but she had remained close to her husband's family and her 70 year old mother in law was there as well. She did not have a clue who I was. Like I said earlier, I just assumed everyone knew who I was. I started talking to her and she turned to my ex and asked who I was, when she was told the look on her face was priceless!! She then told me that she had been told about me but how I looked was nothing like what she had imagined. She said she expected to see a guy in a dress not an attractive lady. I just had to hug her neck!!
It was a good night, just strange for me. My friends at the club had to laugh, the main comment was "If it's gonna happen to anyone, It's gonna happen to Stef"
Hugs,
Stef
Great story and you totally handled yourself like a true lady. You're a very classy gal too.