NOOO!

Darla · Post by **Darla** » Wed Oct 12, 2005 3:43 am

My brother had been searching around my room and found a bag with all my girl clothes in, he told my dad about it but i managed to convince him that they were my moms birthday present.

but i got them in the wrong sizes, he told me to give them to him so he'll throw them away without my mom knowing, i had no choice but to give it to him, i managed to save my make up my denim mini skirt and my favourate pair of high heels, plus i have a top and another pair of high heels hidden in my mom and dads room (mom knows about them because she found them under my bed, one reason why i told her).

so i still have enougth for an entire outfit but it upsets me that i don't have the other clothes.

Beauty · Post by **Beauty** » Wed Oct 12, 2005 4:09 am

Hi Darla,

Did you tell your mom?

Would you feel comfy asking her if she's told your father. The fact that he said he'd throw them away instead of I'll return them is a little like "hmmm?"

I am sorry that happened, but like you said at least you got to save some of your things.

Gracie

Post by **DonnaT** » Wed Oct 12, 2005 6:56 am

Beauty wrote: The fact that he said he'd throw them away instead of I'll return them is a little like "hmmm?"

Talk to your mom and tell her what happened. That you are not happy with your brother snooping through your things, and your dad throwing perfectly good clothes away.

Now, if the trash has yet to be picked up, you can always retrieve them.

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Wed Oct 12, 2005 8:56 am

Darla,
I too agree with my sisters about your father's reaction. We don't know what you look like or your characteristics, but some of us give off signals that are sometimes difficult to hid and others may look at us and sense that we are a bit "different" - please no offense, but it sometimes comes with the territory! Perhaps it is time to start thinking about "coming out" to you mum or someone close to you. Keep us posted, hon!
Virginia

Merinda · Post by **Merinda** » Wed Oct 12, 2005 3:23 pm

Beauty wrote:Hi Darla,
The fact that he said he'd throw them away instead of I'll return them is a little like "hmmm?"
Gracie

I agree , the normal reaction would to return them to the store.

I'm sorry to hear that Darla , it looks like you need to look for a new hiding spot.

It also looks like your brother deserves a lesson on snooping through other people posessions

Steffie · Post by **Steffie** » Wed Oct 12, 2005 10:04 pm

Hi Darla,

I agree with the other girls above. It is a bit strange that your father would want to throw them away. Hopefully everything will work out.

Steffie