We finally talked and God is it good
Posted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 9:32 am
Wasn't sure where to post this, much of my ranting and worring has been done on the GG section so to those who know about the silence and what it as doing to me /us/ our relationship sorry but the GM's have given me/us/our relationship so much support thought it was only fair to share it with everybody.
After six weeks of almost silence on his part we finally talked on Fri --- (I had had my I don't give a f**k head on for a few days) I couldn't take any more of his silence and basically I had got to the stage where I was saying okay have your fun if you want, but I am entitled to mine as well and if your not willing to talk/share then bu***r it I WILL have some fun and if it dosen't include you that's your fault not mine. Upshot we passed a few snarls on thur night, fri morning still saw me not happy however he did manage to get me to sit down and talk to him ( I tend to go into clean mode when I am mad at him - works wonders on the house
) we looked through some posts on here and another site, we really talked and guess what
I freaked him cos I didn't freak (go figure), he also thought I was trying to force him into dressing cause I bought him things !!!!!!!! (in my defence I was trying to show him my support by making it easier for him).
He also said that he had trouble getting his head round the fact that I didn't freak, didn't go running off to tell everybody what a weirdo he was , that somebody else now knew about his dressing and didn't consider him a perv, and that not only was I okay with him dressing but that I was willing to share it with him.
We went out yesterday (Sat) shopping for both him/her and me, n boy was that great, found out why some styles are better for her than others , hopefully we will be able to do it again soon but not in our home town tooooooooo conservative and boring, no choice, and thats for both of us or EBAY may be getting quite a few visits from us both together
TO EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU THANKYOU THANKYOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT, WISDOM, LOVE AND LAUGHTER. I feel a huge corner has been turned, the silence has been hopefully finally silenced and while we travel our road together it can't be a bad road to B on.
Jess (a very happy SO)
FROM THE 
After six weeks of almost silence on his part we finally talked on Fri --- (I had had my I don't give a f**k head on for a few days) I couldn't take any more of his silence and basically I had got to the stage where I was saying okay have your fun if you want, but I am entitled to mine as well and if your not willing to talk/share then bu***r it I WILL have some fun and if it dosen't include you that's your fault not mine. Upshot we passed a few snarls on thur night, fri morning still saw me not happy however he did manage to get me to sit down and talk to him ( I tend to go into clean mode when I am mad at him - works wonders on the house
) we looked through some posts on here and another site, we really talked and guess what I freaked him cos I didn't freak (go figure), he also thought I was trying to force him into dressing cause I bought him things !!!!!!!! (in my defence I was trying to show him my support by making it easier for him).
He also said that he had trouble getting his head round the fact that I didn't freak, didn't go running off to tell everybody what a weirdo he was , that somebody else now knew about his dressing and didn't consider him a perv, and that not only was I okay with him dressing but that I was willing to share it with him.
We went out yesterday (Sat) shopping for both him/her and me, n boy was that great, found out why some styles are better for her than others , hopefully we will be able to do it again soon but not in our home town tooooooooo conservative and boring, no choice, and thats for both of us or EBAY may be getting quite a few visits from us both together
TO EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU THANKYOU THANKYOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT, WISDOM, LOVE AND LAUGHTER. I feel a huge corner has been turned, the silence has been hopefully finally silenced and while we travel our road together it can't be a bad road to B on.
Jess (a very happy SO)
FROM THE 
to all, glad everybody is delighted for us (never doubted you would be anything but)
sob, sob - all this outpouring of emotion, I need to go get me a kleenex...AND I'm not even dressed right now)
