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Hi ya Ladies,

Hope today in your part of the world everything is just fine.

This question is for those that spouses know about their dressing,however it is open for others.

Does you spouse allow you to share her clothes and vice versa.
Marie and I share clothes,and we have got to a point now in our relationship where she will by me my underwear when she buys her own.

We do however fight over certain garments as we both like it.These items are a one off as we puchased them through ebay,thus we have to take turns.I actually look at this ,as great part of being involved with my femme and her with me on the girlfriend side of things.

Hugs to you all,
Penny

The sharing problems are in sizes. Some of her clothes fit, and my SO has no objections to my borrowing them. My male clothes may or may not fit, but, so far, she has shown no interest in them. Borrowed occasional femme things, however.

Lydia

My CD and I do share clothes, those that we can, anyway, and gladly! We enjoy knowing that the other person has also worn that item and it lends to more intimacy and sharing between us. The same goes for any accessories - jewelry, scarves, purses, and the like.

- SL

Although my spouse doesn't know much about my crossdressing early in our courtship we both enjoyed sharing the non gender specific clothing such as tee shirts and sweetshirts. This was also true of the woman who was my first big love affair when I was much younger-I could even wear her jeans which she liked.

Subsequently I gained enough weight that my wifes clothes no longer fit me but having lost a lot of it I can now wear her tees and sweats again. A couple of occaisions I have been out of clean underwear and borrowed her panties and she thought that was kind of cute but I think most of all she liked the fact that they were too small to be comfortable for me. My wife seems to really like to wear my socks although I don't care for hers.

My daughters both enjoyed wearing my flannel shirts and would ask to borrow them.

From watching my daughters and their friends exchange clothing I am convinced that sharing clothing is a kind of bonding or expression of affection between women which doesn't really happen that much among men with guy clothes.

Absaroka

I have always offered to my wife that she could borrow any of my clothes, but she usually doesn't take me up on the offer. I'm not real sure why. We wear the same sizes of most lingerie items and skirts. Some of my tops will fit, but pants and jeans are too long for her.

She has borrowed stockings from me when she didn't have an extra, and got a run in one, but that's about it.

Again, she mostly just tolerates my dressing, and I think in her mind, if she were to borrow my clothes she might be showing too much acceptance.

My wife and I share clothes. Except for shoes, most of our things fit each other.

There are only a very few things of hers that she prefers that I don't borrow.

I have built up my wardrobe so now she occasionally borrows a dress, skirt, or top from me.

We have a shared collection of nightgowns. Unless we have a rare overnight visit from a relative or we are visiting relatives, it's nightgowns for both of us.

Jadeanne

My wife tends to turn a blind eye to the underwear, but now she is quite happily providing me with our oldest daughters hand me down jeans (I guess it is hand me up really), not sure if it is for me, or because she likes the way my butt looks in them

For a while she was happy sharing lingerie, not sure what changed, but maybe it will change back. Also she has gone up a size, so mine are too small for her, and I swim in hers. Could be the reason for the change.

My wife and I do indeed share our clothing and accessories from time to time, although that doesn’t extend to underwear, very rarely and only under needy circumstances have we ever worn each other undies.

I suppose we’re fortunate in that we both take size 12 to 14, depending on allowance for variance from time to time in the makers cut, as for shoes, I’m one size bigger than her so there’s no opportunity to share those.

We do shop mostly together, and I do detect a hint of preferences being made by her more to her liking in clothes, so at times when we’re shopping for me we do have differences of opinion on what to buy, but hey, it’s so much fun shopping together, and it’s nice to be able to do those things together with someone who you love and care for very deeply.
Shopping for clothes together is a very intimate time for me because being able to do these things together highlights how special this lady is and the sacrifices she’s made, also it brings us together in a way which most people could never understand, it creates a feeling between us which words would never do justice to.

Kind Regards,

Sally.

My ex and I couldn't really share clothes, as she was a few sizes larger than me. I know, it's usually the other way around, but I'm an 18 top/14 bottom, and she was 26/28. I did like to borrow her sleepwear from time to time, when she wouldn't let me have my own.

My wife has borrowed sometimes, but it's a no-no for me to borrow any of hers.

Heck, she gave me her Brighton's watch just because I wore it in Vegas.

She has a thing about sharing, since she and her sister had to share when they were kids. She didn't like it then and doesn't now.

My spouse and I sometimes share our items when they fit each other. Unfortunately she got the opinion, that they dress me better than her...

My wife has this alsum long blackdress with a black cape type jacket which I would give my eye teeth to wear but a big NO is her reply.
In short she doesn't share but will help herself to my stockings.

I don't share, i buy my own things.

As I'm lucky to have a supportive wife, we do share a few clothes - with the exception of undies. (She did like the feel of a couple of pairs I have and asked where I bought them.) As she is a little smaller than me, it's mostly her borrowing my clothes - which I don't mind at all. As she is pretty comfortable with my dressing these days, she pretty much has the run of two wardrobes to choose from on those days she has 'nothing to wear'. My taste in clothes is a little more varied than hers but there are enough 'classic' items in there to keep her happy and to experiment with if she's in the mood.

My other 'growing problem' however are my two young daughters who are already eyeing my wardrobe. They have already plundered makeup, nail polish, belts and other accessories as they get more and more into fashion - which again I don't mind (most times) because it just adds to that great feeling of the acceptance that I'm lucky to share with my family. The only down side is when I can't find that pair of earrings, or the lid of my favourite nail polish is missing, little stuff like that. With the makeup, I ended up buying a Walmart makeup set which keeps them away from my makeup case. Works a treat! Gotta love 'em!

Stephanie

I'm happy to share clothes, undies included and so is Ed, though him being quite a bit broader in the shoulders and chest, he can't fit into my dresses or nighties but I can borrow his I prefer if he buys stuff I like...I have mixed emotions when he buys stuff I would never wear...

Stephanie, Ed asked to borrow a nail polish from my daughter, (his step-daughter) she was happy to lend him! It is lovely that it all seems so normal to her and no big issue

Love,
Curly.