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I went on a date Friday night,my friend Allyson set me up with her cousin Megan and it went great.Her cousin knew about my crossdressing and she asked about it to know me.We are getting to know each other slowly and so far I like her and she likes me.Megan did tell me that she likes guys who like to discover their femme side and wanted to see my femme side.I did this yesterday,she called me Kaylee and told me I looked beautiful.I told her thank you and we did hug.Megan told me that she is going to be fully supportive and accepts my crossdressing.I did thank my friend Allyson for doing this for me since she was very supportive during my divorce a month ago.

Hi, Kaylee -

I'm glad that you had a good time with your friends, and I hope you have more.

Just a word of caution, though - - don't forget to practice what we call "Baby Steps, Honey; Baby Steps."

Even though Megan (and even Allyson) are supportive and accept your CDing, don't be too surprised to find them on a roller coaster of emotions, although hopefully it's just the "kiddy roller coaster" and not the "Cork Screw". Take it slowly, and don't push Kaylee on either of them.

* Hugs *

- SL

My friend Allyson knows about my crossdressing since age 12 and has been supportive to this day.Megan and I are planning on going on another date tommorrow night.Megan wants to know my femme side more too,we are planning to go shopping today.

All I can say is wow...

Have fun!

Did go out on the second date,we both had a fun time and she told me that she loves my femme side a lot.We did go shopping Tuesday and it went great also.My friend Allyson see her cousin Megan and I are really happy together.She did meet my Uncle Hank and Aunt Charlene too,they like her so far knowing she is very supportive of my crossdressing.

nice to have someone very supportive.

Kaylee,

I am so happy for you. It's so nice to be with people who accept us how we are or are even attracted to us. My wife Raven(SO) doesn't know me any other way. She only knows Elizabeth. I have only worn masculine clothes one time, and it was just so she could see me. She asked me to change back because she said I looked sad and she didn't like that.

It's so nice to be in the company of those who find merit in who and what we are. Good Luck.

Love always,
Elizabeth

What a great ride!!

Treasure this moment! Most of us will never get what you have just experienced. To be excepted and cared for in your natural state. SWEET!

My wife is still wrapping her head around it.

I've only come out to people, male & female, who have previously known me as a male. It lessens the shock when they see me dressed female only because they know that it's "crazy-old-me" behind the makeup.

I wish I could do this!!!! I work for the government

My SO is also quite supportive. On our recent auto trip, we shared the large selection of stretch knit dresses while driving. they are quit comfortable on a trip.

Ann Stef wrote:stretch knit dresses

I love knit dresses, skirts and blouses! They feel so good against my skin!

That's great Kaylee.

One word of caution though. If you are not on a track towards transition, don't let all the good things that are happening now push you down the slippery slope.

I've seen CDs get caught up in the pink cloud and go further than intended.

ChristineK wrote:I wish I could do this!!!! I work for the government

Christine where there is a will there is a way. With your looks you should have no problems getting out. I tell people to get out of town and away from those they know.

ChristineK wrote:My wife is still wrapping her head around it.

If you wife is trying to deal with your CDing and you are both working on it together, take things easy and at her pace. What ever you do make sure your wife is informed and on board. If your wife becomes more tolerating or accepting from the time working through things and waiting to do things you may want to do, it will be worth the waiting.

If you wife is trying to deal with your CDing and you are both working on it together

My wife has accepted me on and off. Some days better than others. I took things very slow, but I don't think it was slow enough really. Funny, we go shopping together, everywhere, and she will tell me things that look nice. She will pick colors, makeup etc that would work for me. Later, I may put them on and its "Are you gay, do you still love me, are you trying to find a guy? etc". Other days she is totally accepting.

I checked into a Michigan Tri-Ess group and printed out some of the items from the site. She 'thinks' I want group sex now???? That couldn't be further from the truth.

The girls here will stress baby steps, I'm saying cut those baby steps in half, infant steps...