Good and bad thing about being an open cross-dresser
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Gaven McLaren
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Let me try to explain my issue with it. My main issue is not that her mother was no longer amongst the living. It is more that she had just met me and was offering me something that I feel is rather personal. I feel that clothing is a personal thing and should not be offered on the first time you meet someone. Her mother being no longer amongst the living just made it creepy to me. Now on the 5th or 6th time being at her house I would not have minded.
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Bernice
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Pat: Churches around here have largely quit having rummage sales. Yes, I could just give them all to the Goodwill Industries. Perhaps I will, since nobody here even wants to take a look.
April Rose: I've heard that Craigslist is a very unsafe way to do business, and so no, I have not tried it.
As for clothes having belonged to people who are now deceased, as long as they didn't die while wearing the clothes, they are no different to me than any other used clothes. I can't afford new clothes (sometimes I splurge on factory irregulars), so perhaps my perspective is warped.
I guess my initial thought offering them here was that I'd much rather see un-bifurcated clothing go to people who might really appreciate them, and so I thought my sisters here on this forum should get right of first refusal. After all, my mother was always very unsupportive of my crossdressing, and probably would have refused to believe that others might cross-dress, so I thought it a mild form of poetic justice to give her clothes to crossdressers. Mea Culpa.
Hugs,
Bernice
April Rose: I've heard that Craigslist is a very unsafe way to do business, and so no, I have not tried it.
As for clothes having belonged to people who are now deceased, as long as they didn't die while wearing the clothes, they are no different to me than any other used clothes. I can't afford new clothes (sometimes I splurge on factory irregulars), so perhaps my perspective is warped.
I guess my initial thought offering them here was that I'd much rather see un-bifurcated clothing go to people who might really appreciate them, and so I thought my sisters here on this forum should get right of first refusal. After all, my mother was always very unsupportive of my crossdressing, and probably would have refused to believe that others might cross-dress, so I thought it a mild form of poetic justice to give her clothes to crossdressers. Mea Culpa.
Hugs,
Bernice