Divorced?

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Are you divorced because of your CDing?

Yes
5
11%
Still married and wife knows
34
77%
Still married and wife doesn't know
5
11%
 
Total votes: 44
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Wendae
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Post by Wendae »

I agree Susan. I'm coming up on 45 years. She still chooses to ignore it.
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Post by Michelle Miller »

My ex blamed my 'feminine side', but I think that was just an easily justified reason she came up with because she didn't have the guts to come up with a real reason, seeing as how she knew about it LONG before we were married.

I think she used it as a scapegoat, more than anything.
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Post by Absaroka »

Andrea Elise I say with with compassion. Maybe what's wrong with you is the type of woman you are attracted to. I'm bringing this up because for years my relationships went from bad to worse. Eventually I had to examine what I was really looking for in a woman.

The women you describe were probably all initially very exciting, as well as probably good at initially pretending to be who you wanted them to be.. But in marriage we want something else.

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Post by DonnaT »

Andrea, I suggest going to pre-marriage counseling to try and figure out what, if anything, you might be doing to cause these marriages to fail. Take your SO with you.

Do y'all live together now?

Of course none of it may have been anything you've done. My youngest brother has been married 4 or 5 times, can't remember :P, but I do know it wasn't anything he did. And believe me, I don't give my brothers any breaks just because we are related.
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