When you're asked your name...

[April Rose]

My male name is somewhat androgynous anyway, so my wife never refers to me by any thing but that. This is actually pretty consistent. She doesn't like things that are obviously made up. Me in a dress?: Fine. a wig?: Mmnnnnnn..... Big,Obviously padded Boobs?: WTF?!!!!
What I have Learned , over time (a lot of time ; I'm not exactly quick on the up-take.) is that while I may have a fantasy, it is not my right, nor can I expect, to make it her fantasy as well.

I think, nonetheless, that on a form you should put down whatever you want to put down. Except maybe in the case of Social Security or the IRS.

[Sandy]

I am still Jason to everyone that I come into contact with and perhaps someday I will be addressed as sandy or another name when I am fully comfortable being dressed up in public which I really hope that I can do someday. I really want to meet another tg so they can help build up my confidence and we can do it together, that is my dream and I hope that someday its possible.