Dating Site revelation...or nope...

[SharonRose]

Hello all,

I have not posted in a while. This is an interesting thread. I told my wife after our third date that I was a crossdresser. I had a prior relationship that ended because I did not tell the person. I think when to disclose is a personal choice. I wanted to establish a connection before telling. There are many things aabout ourselves that we would not disclose to people we have not yet met. Some women would be accepting of our gender gift but they may need to become better informed first.

[Anne Bonny]

Thank you. I deleted that part of my profile, the 3 pictures I added, and went back through all the questions to clean those up too a few days back. It is so hard. My wife is not gone yet so I cannot date or even meet with anyone until then. Hard to say what is right or wrong. The other option is once I can start meeting potential partners and get to know them find the right moment if everything seems to be ok.

I think you are right. If someone does not know us on a dating site full of interesting men...what woman is going to contact a man who openly states I am gender fluid? Not knowing you from Adam...they are going to pass you by most likely never giving you a chance.

It is tough to be alone but I am just going to have to be patient establish a fledgling relationship and go from there.