Not coping well

[Beauty]

Hi Kyra,

You are sooo right!

Tonight I plan to sit out on the patio with a glass of wine in a comfortable top and skirt. I'll just watch people drive or walk by from my patio and take in the beautiful weather and scenery and enjoy life.

Thank you for posting. I don't think I would have done this tonight without your inspiration there.

Beauty

[Lorna]

I've been thinking about my life and I've come to the conclusion that I'm not in control. I made a few personal mistakes and now it will take time before I get my control back.
I'm sure you all think that one is always master of mistress of their own life but there are times when that is not so. This is one of those times for me. It 's finanical right now but I'm sure it will work it's self out. It may take several years. This I'm not happy with.

In the mean time I have someone dumping their problems on me and this has gotten me down so much that it's affected relationships with the people in the house I live in.

I'm really quite mixed up right now in all aspects of my life.

Hi Charlene,

I'm glad to see that you're doing better.

Your post really struck me because I am more or less going through exactly what you are right now. I too am struggling with personal finances, and my job is high-stress, low-paying, and dead end... it stinks.

But as far as most of us thinking that we can control everything that happens in our lives... totally untrue. I know firsthand that we most certainly can NOT. But hang in there, you've got a forum full of sisters here who are willing to listen anytime.

*hugs*

~ Lorna