A note for Kira:
I do not want to forget your original post Kira. What's "right" for you, may be totally "wrong" for me. Thinking further, rather than trying to appear right or blend in with what I know my girlfriends will say, you need to be comfortable. If you can walk into a room and feel comfortable, you have the right size. How's that girlfriend?
Hugs as Always
Danielle Marie
Breast Size
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Kira Dias
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Thanks
I would like to thank all of you ladies for posting your responses, especially Danelle, because I am a big man and woman. Do I like my big breasts? I love them, but I wear a 52 XL suit coat, so, it makes sense to have them. Besides making sense, they feel natural because I am a big girl .
I have struggled for years with my size, especially since I grew nearly three inches after I finished my Bachelor's degree (I stopped growing at 26). Yet my size never entered in to my mine when my "other self", Kira, was coming into existence. As the title BBW has come into pop culture over the last ten years, I have had to embrace it wholeheartedly because I am attracted to fuller women, as well. Therefore, it is an all-encompassing process, but I cannot tell you how hard it is to shield the desire to wear you girlfriend/wives clothes...wait a minute, I sending this to a group of crossdressers, yes, you do know how hard it is.
I took pictures a few weeks ago, while my wife was away for 3 weeks *I missed her, but can I tell you that Kira was elated she was gone) and I would love to share them why you all, but I am terrified to do so. Does any one have any thoughts or tips?
I love you all for your courage and support of me and us,
Kira
I have struggled for years with my size, especially since I grew nearly three inches after I finished my Bachelor's degree (I stopped growing at 26). Yet my size never entered in to my mine when my "other self", Kira, was coming into existence. As the title BBW has come into pop culture over the last ten years, I have had to embrace it wholeheartedly because I am attracted to fuller women, as well. Therefore, it is an all-encompassing process, but I cannot tell you how hard it is to shield the desire to wear you girlfriend/wives clothes...wait a minute, I sending this to a group of crossdressers, yes, you do know how hard it is.
I took pictures a few weeks ago, while my wife was away for 3 weeks *I missed her, but can I tell you that Kira was elated she was gone) and I would love to share them why you all, but I am terrified to do so. Does any one have any thoughts or tips?
I love you all for your courage and support of me and us,
Kira
Crossdressing is lonely with no group of ladies to share this wonderful gift. Like GE, we bring good things to life!
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Danielle La Belle
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Hi Kira:
Your body is a "space suit." Inside is where we all live. The suit, well, we need it so that others can identify with similar beings. We see others similar to us walking around and that makes us feel comfortable. We are always people watching in one form or another. So, we will never see "Kira's" soul but what she can do is dress her best when ever she presents herself to the world.
A smart dress or jacket and slacks will do. A clean pretty face, blended with a nice touch of makeup just to define that face. There! Don't you look grand!
If you look in the mirror before taking your pictures and do not like what you see, change it before taking the photos. They can only reflect the vision in the mirror. When you are happy with the mirror, you will be happy with the camera's resulting photos.
If a digital camera, be sure to have one that is 4mp or better. Less than 4mp and the digital results will not be as good no matter what you do. Experiment with the camera first and look at the results via your computer. Practice makes perfect. You are going to look like a 52x. That is your space suit. It is what you got and so make the best of it.
Forget about the magazine covers, they are all woman that have been gouged and poked and primped and dusted and smoothed via digital software. You can email me your best photo as a JPG, tiff or gif file and I will be happy to apply my talents to glamourizing you. The larger the file size the better. Takes longer on the dial-up connection but not to worry. I will fix several different sizes for you and send them back right away after receipt and touch-up.
swans@mpinet.com
Hugs
Danielle Marie
Graphic Artist Extrordinare........
Your body is a "space suit." Inside is where we all live. The suit, well, we need it so that others can identify with similar beings. We see others similar to us walking around and that makes us feel comfortable. We are always people watching in one form or another. So, we will never see "Kira's" soul but what she can do is dress her best when ever she presents herself to the world.
A smart dress or jacket and slacks will do. A clean pretty face, blended with a nice touch of makeup just to define that face. There! Don't you look grand!
If you look in the mirror before taking your pictures and do not like what you see, change it before taking the photos. They can only reflect the vision in the mirror. When you are happy with the mirror, you will be happy with the camera's resulting photos.
If a digital camera, be sure to have one that is 4mp or better. Less than 4mp and the digital results will not be as good no matter what you do. Experiment with the camera first and look at the results via your computer. Practice makes perfect. You are going to look like a 52x. That is your space suit. It is what you got and so make the best of it.
Forget about the magazine covers, they are all woman that have been gouged and poked and primped and dusted and smoothed via digital software. You can email me your best photo as a JPG, tiff or gif file and I will be happy to apply my talents to glamourizing you. The larger the file size the better. Takes longer on the dial-up connection but not to worry. I will fix several different sizes for you and send them back right away after receipt and touch-up.
swans@mpinet.com
Hugs
Danielle Marie
Graphic Artist Extrordinare........
Make the most of every day!
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This has been touched on by several of my sisters above, but I thought I'd just corroborate: at different times I feel I want different breasts, and so over the years I have accumulated A, C, and D forms.
A - stealth of course, but also just nicely suitable for an undrastic look for some outfits.
C - probably for me (at my weight) the most appropriate balance.
D - when I want to fill out my blouse or dress more voluptuously. D also works with my weight and could conceivably be the "right" match for a lot of outfits, but some styles just won't work right with it.
(Now, like others of you I'm sure, from time to time I've wondered, OK, what does a J form feel like. Whoo ee! falling over frontwards, yay! But I haven't got the $$ to experiment like that. It would mean buying a J bra, too. That I have 3 sets of forms at all, and the dozen or so bras I have, merely represents diligent savings over the decades.)
Cute story about variable breast size: When I ordered 4 bras by phone from Woman Within, I think it sincerely mixed up the woman I was talking to that I wanted a 42B, a 42C and a 42D. Nevertheless she rallied, gulped and saying OK, went on with the order like a pro.
After all, WW must get TG buyers by the millions, so they're used to this. Still, she did a double take, so maybe she was a new employee. Nice to think I helped break her in.
Robin Katie
A - stealth of course, but also just nicely suitable for an undrastic look for some outfits.
C - probably for me (at my weight) the most appropriate balance.
D - when I want to fill out my blouse or dress more voluptuously. D also works with my weight and could conceivably be the "right" match for a lot of outfits, but some styles just won't work right with it.
(Now, like others of you I'm sure, from time to time I've wondered, OK, what does a J form feel like. Whoo ee! falling over frontwards, yay! But I haven't got the $$ to experiment like that. It would mean buying a J bra, too. That I have 3 sets of forms at all, and the dozen or so bras I have, merely represents diligent savings over the decades.)
Cute story about variable breast size: When I ordered 4 bras by phone from Woman Within, I think it sincerely mixed up the woman I was talking to that I wanted a 42B, a 42C and a 42D. Nevertheless she rallied, gulped and saying OK, went on with the order like a pro.
After all, WW must get TG buyers by the millions, so they're used to this. Still, she did a double take, so maybe she was a new employee. Nice to think I helped break her in.
Robin Katie-
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Hi Girls:
I have a similar arrangement these days as well. I have A, B, C and D, "Supergel" forms. I would use the "A" size with a 36A bra in male mode everyday. I was able to switch now to a 38C for everyday wear after the spouse and SIL (staying with us for a time) family became adjusted to the TG me. Lucky me!
I have several different bra types that I use depending on the dress or top that I wear. Different days, different outfit, different bra, ha ha LOL. So I too make adjustments according to the cut and style of my outer wear. I like a sound proportional fit that makes things lay just right. I am very particular about that for some reason. I guess it is the engineer in me that designs my look to comply with my idea of fit and proportion.
After a tour of our local mall lately, I began to realize that perhaps I am living in a mental era when concern for such matters was important. Today, at the mall it is what ever! And I do mean "what ever!"
If you are going to wear it, make sure it really fits proportional to your true physical self.
Hugs
Danielle Marie
I have a similar arrangement these days as well. I have A, B, C and D, "Supergel" forms. I would use the "A" size with a 36A bra in male mode everyday. I was able to switch now to a 38C for everyday wear after the spouse and SIL (staying with us for a time) family became adjusted to the TG me. Lucky me!
I have several different bra types that I use depending on the dress or top that I wear. Different days, different outfit, different bra, ha ha LOL. So I too make adjustments according to the cut and style of my outer wear. I like a sound proportional fit that makes things lay just right. I am very particular about that for some reason. I guess it is the engineer in me that designs my look to comply with my idea of fit and proportion.
After a tour of our local mall lately, I began to realize that perhaps I am living in a mental era when concern for such matters was important. Today, at the mall it is what ever! And I do mean "what ever!"
If you are going to wear it, make sure it really fits proportional to your true physical self.
Hugs
Danielle Marie
Make the most of every day!
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CherylM
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My GF had to have breast reduction surgery (many years ago, before I knew her). She said her breasts were so big, they would get into a room half an hour before she did. She had no feeling at all in her nipples, and they were just out of proportion to her frame. (She is 5'1" thin, small boned". She had them reduced to A-cup size, and she loves her small breasts. You can see the scar, directly under each breast, about three inches long.
Since the surgery, she has full sensitivity in the nipples, and has no problem carrying them around. She says she would get sore, with the bra straps digging into her shoulders, from being overloaded.
I love her just the way she is. What a woman!
Since the surgery, she has full sensitivity in the nipples, and has no problem carrying them around. She says she would get sore, with the bra straps digging into her shoulders, from being overloaded.
I love her just the way she is. What a woman!
Cheryl
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Robyn Katie
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And, you know, suddenly I'm thinking a thought I hope won't bring contempt down on my head from my GG sisters here, but ...
(How to put this) (Plunge)
It's a gas to be able to change breast size, even drastically. I can be an A this moment, a D the next moment, suitable to the degree of exposure I can tolerate in a given situation. Not exactly an option available to GGs!
(This leaves out of consideration what GGs *can* do to change breast size using the various falsie augmentations such as add-a-size, push-ups, padded bras, etc. But they need to vary subtly if they aren't to be caught out doing it. CDers are already used to being caught out in wild changes, GGs perhaps not so much.)
Do any GGs sometimes wish they could, as it were, inflate/deflate to adjust size to whim? Or do they tend to view the whole idea with scorn?
OK, I'm already hiding behind the woodshed under a big pile of autumn leaves.
Love, Robyn Katie
(How to put this) (Plunge)
It's a gas to be able to change breast size, even drastically. I can be an A this moment, a D the next moment, suitable to the degree of exposure I can tolerate in a given situation. Not exactly an option available to GGs!
(This leaves out of consideration what GGs *can* do to change breast size using the various falsie augmentations such as add-a-size, push-ups, padded bras, etc. But they need to vary subtly if they aren't to be caught out doing it. CDers are already used to being caught out in wild changes, GGs perhaps not so much.)
Do any GGs sometimes wish they could, as it were, inflate/deflate to adjust size to whim? Or do they tend to view the whole idea with scorn?
OK, I'm already hiding behind the woodshed under a big pile of autumn leaves.
Love, Robyn Katie