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How are you dealing with or handling this aspect of your life?

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Paulie
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Post by Paulie »

Don't candy coat it, Jeannie.... tell us how you really feel! :lol:

I love your outspokeness and respect what you did. I agree that we have to be ourselves, but, everyones situation is a different one.

I personally am open to "some" compromises, but it is a two way street.

I'll take it as it comes and adjust or not accordingly.

But, thanks so much for your input.... I love to read your posts!
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Feeling the need to defend myself

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Ladies,

I am in this fight with you, I know your struggles. In fact, I have to hide Kira, which is why I feel that you are lucky to have the graciousness you have at home. Because she knows, and permits you to dress around her, that is why I say work within her acceptance level.

True enough, I did not know your wife worked from home, so, there are bigger issues than I can grasp. However, because you love this woman and she loves you, I want you to have a blissful home life that is balanced and fair. There was no quest to sound like I know what your home life is like, only the desire to see you not lose what you have in order to be your other self.

Kira
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Jeannie
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I wasn't always like this. Quite the opposite!

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Paulie. I was the meekest person you could imagine my whole life. The events of the last 2 years of my life transformed me into a completely differant person. Those events and maybe my age converged and there's no going back for me. Maybe I'm being selfish but I have to live my life for me at this point and not for others. I'm not going to make myself feel unhappy anymore to make others around me happy. That's all. If that's being selfish and self centered I'm guilty as charged. It's time for me to live my life for me and not for the people around me who have theirs. In my mind they are the ones who are selfish,self centered and arrogant imposing they're beliefs and will upon me so they will feel comfortable. I've always been pushed by others my whole life and just took it. I've transitioned from the prey to the predator. Some have found out the hard way in the last few months. I've bleed my whole life for others to feed upon and finally had my first taste of blood. The sweetest taste I've ever known. The word is out. You can pet or feed this tiger but don't ever pull his tail. Some have in the last few months and they won't do it again. It's instinct. I go straight for the jugular.Hugs

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Re: My two cents!

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Compromise? No freaking way!

Sorry Jeannie I have to disagree with you on this one. I compromise all the time, I have kids, a family, friends, neighbours and others other than my partner that I care about and would not hurt if at all possible. Just after I found out about my partner and when we were talking I likened it to me telling him after 2 years that I had another child of twenty plus yrs that he knew nothing about and that they were coming to live with us no talking no compromise. Sorry hun it just don't work like that, Life is about compromise or we would have anarchy
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We all have to do what works for us Hon. I know. Maybe it's just getting olde but I just have to be me. Plus I've always been a bit of anarchist! I've always enjoyed the chaotic. " Mama told me not to look into the eyes of the sun....... But Mama!......That's where the fun is" You can call me madcap,maybe crazy or better yet out of my freaking mind,but just don't call me Shirley! :lol: Gotta run. I have to lie down. I feel a joke coming on!Hugs


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AKA Trannyman.Striking fear into the hearts of men,women and children everywhere. No one is safe. Where will she strike next? You can run but you can't hide! I've morphed into a menace on society!Some people just freak out Jess, but boy is it fun! Sorry! I'm just pure evil! LOL As a matter of fact my next mission into enemy territory is in the planing stages. I've even recruited my kids for this one. They're is off center as me.It's a big one!. As my son John Paul said when I told him the plans"Mom is going to freaking kill you!" Oh Yeah! Music to my ears! "I love the smell of Anarchy in the morning!" :lol: Jess,little jeannie is a fresh little pig and the pig is out of her pen again after 25 long,long.long years of marriage. I've been swimming upstream all my life and it's time to go with my flow. It's my turn to have some fun. How do you think I got my email nickname? Fresh Frankie! Life is a carnival and I finally got my lifetime pass! Sweet! I enjoy life when it's like James Bonds favorite Martini. ......"Shaken,not stirred." If the people around me can't take the heat. Get out of the kitchen. The ones that are left are the ones that will have fun and the people I want to be with. Why would anyone want to stay with someone who barely tolerates you? It really doesn't make any sense. Does it?
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Post by Paulie »

Kira...
Don't worry. I didn't take offense to your thoughts, and certainly there was no way you would know all the specifics of my situation. I do appreciate your feedback!

Jennie...
You're a nut!!! But, we love ya anyway.

I'm just taking things a day at a time, and yes... sometimes one does have to make compromises. Life is full of give and take. I'm just not willing to be the only one giving.

Thanks all! :)
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Honey. Thanks for the compliment! I try! And my wife Mini had the nerve to say"You're just not right!" Paulie. You probably don't know this but I'm the only sane person on the planet! That's the truth.Hugs

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Jeannie

PS. Yeah! Go ahead ladies and laugh at my Rent-a-Tranny! I smell franchise! I've gotten 3 offers since my sneak attack! Move over Barney there's a new sheriff in town! And if you think I'm off my rocker guess who said this:


"See,in my line of work you gotta keep repeating the things over and over and over again for the truth to sink in,to kinda catapult the propaganda. I think it's very important for the American President to mean what he says,that's why I understand that the enemy could misread what I say. That's why I try to be as clearly I can.(Yes ladies,"Clearly I can!" It's important for people to know I'm the President of everybody."


And I'm nuts? He's the freaking President of the United States! He's a moron! He can't even put together a complete sentence! I bet you anything, all his Professors at Yale left the country when he was first elected. I could just hear them now."OMG! He's the President!" :lol:
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Paulie
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Post by Paulie »

Jeannie....
That is so Hilarious!!!

Where did you find that? I'd love to pass that one on, but I'd want to quote the source.

Thanks!!!
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Jeannie
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I made that up to drop off at my sneak attack at the birthday dinner two fridays ago. The funny thing is that 1 800 PANTIES is a real number! Call it. It's a Hoot! I'm so bad! Hugs

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Jeannie

PS. It is true ladies . I've gotten three offers to crash events! Forget working in my print shop. This could be a world of fun for the rest of my life. I have enough people who would like to kill me now! :lol: My hairdresser said I should carry a gun or get some mace! She's something else. She even charges me more when I come dressed as a woman! Go figure! If you want to get in on the ground floor just let me know Hon. This could be bigger than McDonalds! I need some help in pricing. I figure $100.00 bucks in everyday wear. Fifty more for evening gowns and if you want to feel my boobies(Like most GG's do! They're freaking animals!) it's twenty five dollars each! It buys you 15 minutes! And people say I'm crazy! Crazy like a fox. And I am a fox! Oh I'm so vain! :lol: Personally I like my top ten reasons why it's great to be transgendered! I can't post all The Ten Laws of the Universe that my friend Gary and I formulated a few years ago at a party while in a drunken stupor. I'd get banned! But they're great!
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