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[ChristineK]

I wish I could do this!!!! I work for the government

Christine where there is a will there is a way. With your looks you should have no problems getting out. I tell people to get out of town and away from those they know.

My wife is still wrapping her head around it.

If you wife is trying to deal with your CDing and you are both working on it together, take things easy and at her pace. What ever you do make sure your wife is informed and on board. If your wife becomes more tolerating or accepting from the time working through things and waiting to do things you may want to do, it will be worth the waiting.

WOW thanks for the vote!!

I still am not yet ready to venture out but I am close to the comfort level. My wife excepts Christine and even bought me a teddie for my birthday and then bought me a purse after. I am close to the full walk out, If I could lose a few pounds I would feel much better

[KimberlyS]

...My wife has accepted me on and off. Some days better than others.

Most of us struggled up and down a good part of lives with our CDing. We can not expect our wifes/GF/SO's to be ok with it in a shorter period of time. But great when they can get there sooner than we did.