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Leslie(SO) · Post by **Leslie(SO)** » Sat Dec 05, 2009 11:32 pm

Hello!

I'm Leslie and I found out a few days ago that my fiance crossdresses. I'm working on adjusting to and accepting the idea and would love any feedback people wish to give. I'm new to thie idea and would like to learn as much as I can.

SilverLady(SO) · Post by **SilverLady(SO)** » Sat Dec 05, 2009 11:48 pm

Hi, Leslie, and welcome to the Forum!!

- SL

Carol Ann · Post by **Carol Ann** » Sun Dec 06, 2009 8:09 am

Leslie,

Well you have come to the right place for anwsers, I have openly dress in front of my wife since we were married. My wife to this day enjoys my dressing up for her in fact you yourself may get a huge kick out of it. $\:D/$

Joselle · Post by **Joselle** » Sun Dec 06, 2009 8:38 am

Hi Leslie

Joselle

Patti D · Post by **Patti D** » Sun Dec 06, 2009 12:33 pm

Hi Leslie, My wife adjusted to my dressing because of our open relationship. We love each other and are willing to support each other also. I applaud your seeking answers instead of shutting the door.

Post by **DonnaT** » Mon Dec 07, 2009 8:49 am

Hi Leslie,

to the forum.

It's a great start, coming here.

Leslie(SO) · Post by **Leslie(SO)** » Mon Dec 07, 2009 8:50 pm

Thanks for the welcome everyone

Carly · Post by **Carly** » Mon Dec 07, 2009 9:53 pm

Leslie,
Your fiance is not alone. I have been married over 25years and I believe I have been a good husband and father. I think the part of me that is expressed in crossdressing is part of the whole of me that attracted her in the first place.

DanteCarrie (FTM) · Post by **DanteCarrie (FTM)** » Tue Dec 08, 2009 2:53 am

hi leslie.

Ms Zoe · Post by **Ms Zoe** » Sat Dec 12, 2009 9:21 am

I can honestly say that having a supportive wife or SO can be so much fun and very rewarding for the both of you. There are a number of us who chat regularly and we'd welcome a chance to give you our side and stories.

Zoe

Leeza · Post by **Leeza** » Sat Dec 12, 2009 7:38 pm

Hi Leslie and welcome.

My daughters were always able to talk to me about anything including personaal things. Later when they found out that I was a crossdresser they decided that that part of me was what made it easier to talk to me. They would talk to me about things they couldn't talk to their mother about.

Leeza

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Sat Dec 12, 2009 8:35 pm

Hi Leslie,

Welcome and I want to just say thank you for being open-minded enough to do some research on "us."

You will find that we are nice folk!!!!

Love,

Virginia

Lucy Michelle · Post by **Lucy Michelle** » Sun Dec 13, 2009 11:55 pm

Welcome Leslie

Erica S · Post by **Erica S** » Mon Dec 14, 2009 8:11 am

Welcome Leslie,

Erica

Bernice · Post by **Bernice** » Sat Dec 26, 2009 9:42 pm

Welcome Leslie!

I believe we are all here to listen, understand, support, and educate (and conversely to scream, to be understood, to receive support, and to learn).

Life is complicated. Life is also very much "worth it", ditto for love. We don't choose who we love. Love chooses us. So, we do whatever we have to, to protect faith, hope, and love.

End of sermon. Please let us know how we can help you?

Hugs,

Bernice

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