First time with my girlfriend

Kirsty · Post by **Kirsty** » Sun Jun 27, 2010 7:31 am

Well my girlfriend has been with Kirsty!!
I said in my introduction that I told her before we got back together properly and she said she didnt have a problem with it so I sent her some pix and she said she liked them. Then last week she called and Kirsty answered the door!
At first I was sooooo embarressed and felt really daft but she told me not to be and said I looked great. She sat on the chair and I knelt on the floor trying not to show myself off too much (for some reason). I had a couple of beers which loosened me up so I began to walk about a bit in front of her and not feel so silly!
Anyway without going into too much detail she likes Kirsty and it feels wonderful that she's into it.
I just had to tell you all lol!!

xxkirstyxx

Post by **DonnaT** » Sun Jun 27, 2010 7:34 am

Cool! Congrats!

But don't overwhelm her with too much Kirsty too soon.

Kirsty · Post by **Kirsty** » Sun Jun 27, 2010 7:39 am

Thanks!! Im not gonna be kirsty all the time with her as there's a load of other stuff we get up to(!) lol. Besides it's usually me that visits her and she has kids so I'm keeping the kirsty-thing to my house only.

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Sun Jun 27, 2010 8:28 am

Hi Kristy,

We are glad thatyour first exposure went well. If you have read some of the other posts/threads you will find our motto, "baby steps, just baby steps."

GG's may at first seem accepting but sometimes they have second thoughts and really struggle with getting their minds around "this other woman" who appears in their life.

So, Donna says and others, take your time, don't push, even if you can let her, you GF take the lead.

Good luck and keep us posted.

Virginia

Diane Light · Post by **Diane Light** » Mon Jun 28, 2010 8:46 am

Great Kristy

I have read many books on human development in my lifetime. Females have a different hierarchy of what's important to them than males. Your honesty was high on her list, probably, usually tops the list along with sincerity and respect. Females also tend to look more at what;s "inside" rather than the outer "crust", which makes them "special".

Handled in the proper way, she may enjoy your "inner girl".

My suggestion is to be the male she desires as well as the female best friend she can relate to. The comfort should grow with both of you as you shop and do things together, knowing that you are living an adventure created by the both of you together.........................and the world just goes on around you.

Much happiness to you both.

Diane