My story

[MeganMartin]

My story is not much different than the many others I've heard over the years. But here goes!

About age 9 or 10 found a pair of pantyhose and tried them on. And following years having four sisters there was always something laying around for me to try. Tried panties and heels. This would occur mostly when they were available and I had the opportunity to do so undetected.

Did so for many years after leaving home and when I married my wife in 92 discovered at the time we were very close in size. Same shoe size and clothing size, which gave me lots of opportunity to try new stuff. She had such lovely taste and ample clothing.

Over the years I did so here and there, when opportunity met need. But I always felt ashame and nobody knew my secret. It was not till my mid 30s that I wanted to try a wig and makeup to see what I would look like.

One day took off work bought a wig from Party City and makeup from Wal-Mart and a few dresses. Once I did this I was hooked. About 3 months after this my wife discovered a link on my laptop “ how to apply eye makeup’

She was shocked and could not believe it, asked me a few times if I was a crossdresser, which I denied. Then she found a long brown hair on her coat. Wife is a blond, so there were two choices I was either having an affair with a brunette and letting her wear my wife’s coat or I was a crossdresser. I finally confessed I was indeed a crossdresser.

Wife had many of questions and not going to mislead anyone it was very difficult at first but in my opinion it made out marriage better. She finally knew all of me.

She initially asked me to promise to never do it again. Which I told her I could not make such a promise knowing I was going to break it. She pondered that for a few days and came back with this line…” I rather have the both of you than none of you “

[DonnaT]

” I rather have the both of you than none of you “

Good answer

[Requal Jo]

Thank you for sharing your beginnings with us Megan.

I am pleased that your wife is accepting Megan. Be sure to look after her as having an accepting wife really makes our dressing so much more enjoyable.