I need your thoughts please!

Vickie P · Post by **Vickie P** » Mon Jun 16, 2008 6:36 am

This is addressed to all of the SOs (real women) that are on the forum or even just passing through. I will not go into the long story of how I got to this point in my life unless you PM or e-mail me requesting it. At age o11 I knew I liked womens clothes, but didn't get to experiment fully until I was 42. I had a wonderful 8 years to really be Vickie. Then she had to pretty much go back into the closet. In that 8 years I asked my wife how she felt about my desire to have breast, about a size B, but not changing anything below. She said and I quote, " sure go ahead for it might be nice". You see, she sort of enjoyed the idea during our intimate times that I was dressed very intimately, and we had a more than wonderful intimate time in the bedroom. I went to counseling and she agreed that I had a feminine side of me that will not go away and she saw nothing wrong with my desire for breast etc. So, I met with my doctor, a female, and she too agreed, and put me on Premarin starting off on small dosage then up to 1.25, I believe then on the Patch. I did this for about 4 yeaars with some success, I am now almost a B. My question is this, from your point of view as a women, what is so wrong in my need and desire to have breast so as long it doen't cause any problems in our marriage? You see, I still ejoy being the female during our intimate times. It is just that I have always wanted and desired to have breast like a women since I was a young boy, I think they are one of the beauties of the female body. I will stop now for I have gone on longer than I planned, just hoping to get some positive feed back, or not, from the other women out there. Thank you from the bottom of my heart, Vickie P.

Vickie P · Post by **Vickie P** » Mon Jun 16, 2008 6:38 am

I forgot to mention that I am 63 now, sorry. Vickie P.

Post by **KimberlyS** » Mon Jun 16, 2008 11:57 am

Vickie P wrote:...My question is this, from your point of view as a women, what is so wrong in my need and desire to have breast so as long it doen't cause any problems in our marriage?

Vickie if it works within your marriage and both you And your wife can deal with it, I see nothing wrong with it. Sounds like it works well for both of you so I would not worry about it.

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Vickie P · Post by **Vickie P** » Mon Jun 16, 2008 12:52 pm

Thanks Kimberly for your in put about my breast question. I know for a fact many CDs out there want the same as I do. I have been hoping to find a GG that may give me advice on how to possibly inrease my breast size,that may have worked for them or their CD. I don't mean to put the GG members on the spot or cause any hard feelings, just an old CD with a life long question. Thanks again and do have a good day. Vickie P.

Post by **DonnaT** » Mon Jun 16, 2008 9:13 pm

There have been a couple of members who had BA at the approval of their SOs. I imagine that would be the safest way to go about it, and the easiest to get rid of if they became a problem.

Hormones have different affects on different people. No one should consider this route unless they are under a doctors supervision. Still, some who even take T-blockers don't manage much enhancement, and end up having BA surgery.

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Mon Jun 16, 2008 9:29 pm

I would have to agree with Donna in this, the horomones can have an adverse effect, but after (I believe you mentioned four years?) and you have reached or almost so your desired size, i.e., "B" then do you plan to increase your "goal?" BA may be the route to consider at this point.

Now I will take you to task on one item you posted, ---not all, or many for that matter, CD'ers desire their own "set." For various and sundry reasons.

Let us know what you decide to do, oh and I am glad that your Dr. seems to support you in this, very nice!

Virginia

Vickie P · Post by **Vickie P** » Tue Jun 17, 2008 6:05 am

Thank you to those of you that was good enough to leave some in put on the forum about my situation. I know that not many CDs want the same thing, but what I meant was that there is some out there that has had the same thoughts as I. In most cases nothing has ever come of it but the thought has been there in their minds. Thank you for allowing me to post my situation on the forum and I did not mean to offend anyone. I am just like so many other CDs, and that is no one to talk with except of forums such as this one, and even then still feel alone. Sorry but that is just the way I feel.

Ann Stef · Post by **Ann Stef** » Mon Jul 07, 2008 4:42 pm

Womens breast do indeed add curvature to the body physique. It is no wonder that men would like to imitate this curvature. Go for it.

Lana · Post by **Lana** » Mon Jul 07, 2008 5:33 pm

I, like you would love to have a nice set of "B" breasts of my own and have even consulted with my GP on this matter.
She informed me that she would not prescribe any hormones for me until I underwent and received approval from a psychologist.
Glad everything has turned out well for you.
Lana

Caith · Post by **Caith** » Mon Jul 07, 2008 5:43 pm

Hi Vickie from a fellow NC resident

I've previously posted about my own similar desires, and have been taking low dosage estradiol and spironolactone under my doctor's regular supervision. Although I've had some development, it's not nearly as large

as some men's 'man boobs'. The mental relief it's provided is the most important benefit, and far outweighs any lack of development. The biggest thing I want to share is that your desire for breasts is not entirely unusual or unique. Feel free to PM me or we can take the discussion into a more protected area of the forum.

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