Natural movement and relate ability

[KimberlyS]

One of the times my wife went out and about with me enfemme she said to me they just do not move right. I must have had a strange look as she follows with "your chest". She said they do not move like they should. Well since then this has perplexed me on how to get this. Especially since the forms I had were higher end medical mastectomy forms. I was so happy with the movement they had when I got them.

Well I think I have finally got it. The first thing I figured out is part of a bras job is to lift and support to try and reduce the movement. And I have been wearing mostly good quality bras that had good lift and support. So thus the bras I was wearing were going against movement. So I began trying some bras with less support, some with more of a stretchy cup. This helped.

I then tried some mastectomy bras. This also helped as I would hook them on the loosest setting. But I also had to watch for too much movement and the cups and forms moving out of wack which at times was not a good look. Also being looser the bra did not help with cleavage creation. I tried two bras regular bra under the mastectomy bra. This kind of worked but I could not find the right combination and did not want to be limited by one or two combinations that worked. So next I tried the NuBra under my mastectomy bra and forms. This is one of the adhesive bras. This worked well other than I still had the moving bra and forms issue.

Then something hit me. I had small 40B forms and my wife had 40DD's. Well that may have a bit to do with movement. So I finally decided to bit the bullet and I got myself some 40E forms which I thought would be a good comparison with my wife being 5'2'' and me being 5'8''. I started out with soft cup bra and it was ok. Then a stretchy under wire cup and this gave a decent movement that I would notice at times not even paying attention. But tonight I am working around the house doing some wiring, up and down the ladder. I have the forms in a soft cup night/sleeping bra with little support, and wow. Even as I type this they move with my breathing and my typing. I think I may have some relate ability which is a second reason I went with a form of this size. My wife has said several times to me that I do not know what it is like to deal with them. Referring to her breasts. Well I will never know completely, but I am able relate a bit more. And yes they get in the way and make it hard to get in between things.

kimberlys-cd
joe in a skirt

[KimberlyS]

Can anyone relate to this? Has anyone else been concerned with natural looking chest movement? I also wonder how many really notice besides my wife.

[Melyssa Anne]

I usuall am a 38C -- and use two types of forms. When in the PALS, I do not get as natural a movement, but when I use the silicon based ones (breastform store), my wife has told me that they lhey move very naturally, very realistic.

My input for what it is worth.

[KimberlyS]

Melyssa I am glad I am not the only one that has noticed and worked on this. Yes I do think type and quality of the forms make a big difference also. What type of bras do you usually wear?

I also wonder if our wife's notice this more than others because they are critiquing us? At least I know my wife is as the last couple of times she has been out with me enfemme she keeps giving me pointers. She seems to want me to pass better which I can see from her point of being seen with me.

kimberlys-cd
joe in a skirt

[Melyssa Anne]

My wife, especially initially when I started going out, was super critical and extremely helpful. These days, she is very confortable when we go out together, and only once in a while will she find something to critique/comment on.

Bras---hmm, usually Bali, Maidenform, hanes, or Merona (Target's store Brand), sometimes underwire, sometimes not, usually medium to full coverage.

Sometimes braless with the silicon based ones....I enjoy that a lot (with a halter top or under a cami).