I am LauraK, a crossdresser from the Philadelphia suburbs. It has taken me many years of guilt, doubt, depression, purging and binging (say it isn't so
) to come to that realization. After all that, I finally realized that I do not want to be a woman and I don't think I am gay or bi. I just really enjoy the look and feeling of femininity from time to time. Just over a week ago, I told my wife about my crossdressing. She is still very unsure about it and has lots of questions for me, which I am trying to answer as best as possible. I have reassured her that there is no one else in the entire world I would want to be with or have intimacy with than her, but she still has concerns, which are completely understandable.
I look forward to many years of chatting and "gurl talk".
to our group & congrats on having courage to tell wife, hope you do have some great chat & maybe wife could join to help get some of those answers from other gg's here . Stephenie g
Proud Military Family - Navy, Army, Coast Guard, National Guard 
so you should feel right at home here. Look forward to your contributions and hope you can convince your lovely wife to join us too. 
I hope you'll enjoy yourself here and that your "self-revelation" to your wife will lead the two of you to develop stronger bonds. As others have said, there's room for your Missus here, too. Regardless, I'm looking forward to hearing more from you.