i'm new to this

Tammy D. Loper · Post by **Tammy D. Loper** » Tue Dec 16, 2008 5:17 pm

Hi my name is tammy and i'm new to this forum thing and though i give it a try to see if it will help me to make some hard choices that i have to make. i've been dressing for the past 20 years and when i'm all dressed up it feel so good but when i go home to my wife, after i get back in to my man clothes, i feel that i did something wrong and that i'm hurting my family so so i guess im still in the closet but i have been to some parks truck rest areas but not to any clubs or stores or dates.
a little about me i'm 46, 5'4" 170 lbs with brown hair and blue eyes, i like to ride motorcycles, snowmoblies and i also like to take walks in the park i'm a vary busy person so i dont get the chance to a lot of thing that i would like to do but that ok because someday i will.

SilverLady(SO) · Post by **SilverLady(SO)** » Tue Dec 16, 2008 5:53 pm

Hello, Tammy, and welcome to the Forum!

- SL

Stephanie H · Post by **Stephanie H** » Tue Dec 16, 2008 6:59 pm

Hi Tammy, welcome to the group.

Leeza · Post by **Leeza** » Tue Dec 16, 2008 9:28 pm

Hi, Tammy, and welcome. I think you will find answers here.

Leeza

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Tue Dec 16, 2008 11:26 pm

Hi Tammy,

Hope you can find time to read some of the threads here. I think you will find some of your sisters here are from the "been there done that" school and may be able to help you make some decisions.

I will say this, GET OVER THE GUILT COMPLEX! It is a gift to have what we have, learning that and learning to use it and express yourself is a giant step on your path!

Virginia

Kay · Post by **Kay** » Wed Dec 17, 2008 3:12 am

Hi Tammy
Welcome to this wonderful forum from me across the water. This is a great place for advice and support.
Kay

Post by **DonnaT** » Wed Dec 17, 2008 8:36 am

Hi Tammy,

to the forum.

I saw the word 'date' used. Good to hear you've not stepped out on your wife.

Carol Ann · Post by **Carol Ann** » Wed Dec 17, 2008 9:55 am

Hello Tammy,
Let me join my sisters and welcome you

Now I agree with Virginia give up the complex, you stated you have been dressing for 20 years old habits are hard to stop.

Tammy D. Loper · Post by **Tammy D. Loper** » Wed Dec 17, 2008 10:29 am

hi all and thank you for the respones, it is good to know that their are more ladys out there that under stand how you are feeling and are willing to help if they can thank you again.

Stephanie W · Post by **Stephanie W** » Wed Dec 17, 2008 7:02 pm

Welcome Tammy.

You couldn't have found a more understanding group of folks here who know what it's like. Enjoy the forum and look forward to hearing more.

Stephanie