I Came Out To A Good Friend Today

Felicity D · Post by **Felicity D** » Fri Jan 02, 2009 1:19 am

Good evening to all.Hope everyone had a great New Years.

Mine was great. I came out to a friend who we have known for almost 20 years. I'll call him "R" for now.Anyway, R met us for New Years Eve and since he lives on the other side of of Philly,he stayed overnight last night. we woke up and we all had a very late breakfast,my brother in law stayed over also but he had to leave because he some work to do. I was showing R pictures of my trip to D.C. which are on my Blackberry and I accidently showed him a picture where I'm dressed femme to the full nines. He said"Who is that?" and my wife and I just looked at each other and I just fessed up to him and told him I'm a CDer. He said "really" I went on to explain my story,told him I am not gay just like to explore my feminine side and so on the whole 9 yards. He then said "Being such a manly guy,he would've never thought that" and also said"that he totally cool with it and has no problem with me dressing femme when he comes over". I then offered to get dressed up to show him and have him meet Felicity and he said "ok" I went upstairs and changed into my new Apt 9 sweater,my spaghetti strap tank top underneath and my tan corduroy skirt,put on my long curly blonde wig and some make up,earrings and necklace. When I came downstairs, my wife said "R, meet Felicity". He was like"Wow" and then said " P*il,(my male name) if I didn't know you, I would think that you were a real woman,you look so good!" I just said thanks and then I proceeded to show him my whole femme wardrobe and so on.He then said ' It took alot of guts and courage on your part to tell me and again I have no problem with it and I promise not to say a word to anyone else about it"! I said thank you,but thats not all. We decided that we were in the mood for chinese food.We couldn't go to any chinese places in our area since we are pretty well known, so we found a place about 12 miles away in Downingtown,PA,called to make sure they were open and we drove out there and went in and had dinner and I was totally femme.The place was hardly crowded and no one really cared and the staff was very pleasant. Talk about a great evening.Telling a friend about my CDing and eating dinner out totally femme!It was awesome.I have to admit I was nervous but once we were seated and seeing nobody really cared, I was on cloud 9! What a great way to start off 2009! I guess we'll see what more adventures I'll have this year!

Felicity (very happy gurl tonight)

Post by **DonnaT** » Fri Jan 02, 2009 11:48 am

Cool!

Glad it all went well.

Does your BIL know?

Carol Ann · Post by **Carol Ann** » Fri Jan 02, 2009 11:58 am

Oh gosh to this day I still remember my fist outing to eat enfem, WONDERFUL wonderful

Kyra · Post by **Kyra** » Fri Jan 02, 2009 11:58 am

Wow! That's great Felicity! Glad you had a great time. What a wonderful way to start off 2009.

I've been to quite a few restaurants and I've yet to have a bad experience. My only rule...never go alone.

Diannna · Post by **Diannna** » Sat Jan 03, 2009 2:33 pm

Just a great story Felicity. You must have had a great deal of confidence in yourself to do that. I hope it all stays good for you. As for eating out, I did that a couple times and it was a great experience. Good luck to you girl.

Stephanie H · Post by **Stephanie H** » Sat Jan 03, 2009 6:42 pm

Felicity: You must feel very light now that a significant friend knows of your gift.
Be sure to keep the relationsip.

S. Lisa Smith · Post by **S. Lisa Smith** » Sat Jan 03, 2009 9:21 pm

Congratulations! You are a lucky person, to have a supportive wife and a supportive friend!