Actually, soon after we got married, I'd found a picture of him on his computer, dressed very pretty I must say. Plus, I had found a couple of articles of clothing that I knew weren't mine. I'd tried talking to him back then, but he got very defensive and upset, so I dropped it.
About 2 weeks ago now, I'd gotten home from work, doing the night shift, and he wasn't up from bed yet. So I decided to check our DVR to see how my shows had recorded. He's apparently recorded a 3 minute thing on crossdressing. When he woke up and came downstairs, I confronted him about it. At first he lied and said he'd just picked a show at random to see how our new satellite, DVR worked. I knew better, so I told him that if he liked wearing womens clothes, he needed to tell me the truth, that I would love him no matter what. When he finally admitted it, he acted like he thought I was going to bolt for the door. Apparently his ex wife left him for this very reason. I think I shocked him because I went over and gave him a big hug, and told him he wasn't going to get rid of me that easily. He cried, I hugged him some more, and we had a nice long talk.
In the 2 weeks since, he's worn nighties to bed, then, about 2 nights ago, he came downstairs in a very pretty black dress, and I have to say he has awesome looking legs! I told him I want us to go shopping sometime, not just for him, but for me too. Since I've found out, I find myself wanting to look and feel just as sexy and faminine as he does when he's dressed. Not feeling the need to compete, but he's just made me realize how good it does feel to get dressed up.
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Sami Cover_SO
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Hi Sami and welcome,
I am proud of you so much in so many ways as I do understand what you are dealing with right now.
Back when we were young my wife and her sister used to dress me up almost weekend and we would go out shopping or just window shopping as my wife just love me to death and for what it's worth it was a huge turn on for her.
We have been married for 45 years now and I now dress everyday as she told me a long time ago " you are still the same man I married no matter what cloths you are wearing".
Bless you my dear and love him to death,
I am proud of you so much in so many ways as I do understand what you are dealing with right now.
Back when we were young my wife and her sister used to dress me up almost weekend and we would go out shopping or just window shopping as my wife just love me to death and for what it's worth it was a huge turn on for her.
We have been married for 45 years now and I now dress everyday as she told me a long time ago " you are still the same man I married no matter what cloths you are wearing".
Bless you my dear and love him to death,
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Welcome Sami. Glad to have you join us on the forum. I'm really happy you have such a positive attitude so early on. Good for you both. There will no doubt be some ups and downs along the way as you assimilate his cding into your relationship, but you can be sure you have a lot of great gals here (SO's and CD's) for support should you or your hubby need it. Best of luck to you both.
By the way, while we all like to look and feel pretty, the reality is that most of us know you ladies will invariably have us beat in the femininity dept.
The good thing though is having someone to aspire to and someone who can give us lots of good advice.
Stephanie
By the way, while we all like to look and feel pretty, the reality is that most of us know you ladies will invariably have us beat in the femininity dept.
The good thing though is having someone to aspire to and someone who can give us lots of good advice.Stephanie
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Hi Sami and Welcome!
We've a great bunch of SOs here, as you no doubt have figured out. There's just an honest open quality that our members possess.
I hope you find what you're looking for. There's much to learn from the CDs and SOs alike. I know I have.
You seem to be very accepting and that will go a long way in helping your husband open up. Most Crossdressers hide this side of themselves out of fear. A little patience and understanding will help him relax as well. The most important aspect, though, is communication. Talk to him about how you feel.
Best of luck to you and him.
Hugs,
Kyra
We've a great bunch of SOs here, as you no doubt have figured out. There's just an honest open quality that our members possess.
I hope you find what you're looking for. There's much to learn from the CDs and SOs alike. I know I have.
You seem to be very accepting and that will go a long way in helping your husband open up. Most Crossdressers hide this side of themselves out of fear. A little patience and understanding will help him relax as well. The most important aspect, though, is communication. Talk to him about how you feel.
Best of luck to you and him.
Hugs,
Kyra
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