well i did it

Bobie · Post by **Bobie** » Sun Jan 11, 2009 4:53 pm

Hi all i did it i got dress up put on my makeup on and i was thing about going to town get a mail at the post office this well be my very first time out as women wow i had to get out of the car to walk in as i was walking in a car drove by

seen me it keep on going so i went in get my mail and walk out to my car and drove home thats my first time out i think i well be doing it some more going out dress as women

JoAnnDallas · Post by **JoAnnDallas** » Sun Jan 11, 2009 5:30 pm

Congrads.......the genie is out of the bottle. There will be no way to put it back in now. Now you know the secret. people don't notice what is around them. As long as your dressed reasonably and not over the top, people will not take notice of you.

I first went out back in 2005. Today, I and most times with my wife go out grocery shopping, WalMart, ROSS, Staples, and just about any place anyone goes. I have even used the ladies dressing room and ladies restroom.

Just take it easy. Take your time. Next thing you notice you too will be out and about doing everyday things.

Hugs,

JoAnn

TashaM · Post by **TashaM** » Sun Jan 11, 2009 6:15 pm

Congrats Bobie, my first official time will be feb7th. I'm a bit nervious, but looking forward to it. As I'll be among about 14 girls.

Post by **KimberlyS** » Sun Jan 11, 2009 10:00 pm

I hope you enjoyed your self Bobbie. Sounds like a great first time out.

Going out for each of us is different. And some do not feel a great need to get out. But you have a need to get out you need to enjoy it even if you are very nervous. If is not enjoyable than it is not worth it.

Kim

Erin L · Post by **Erin L** » Sun Jan 11, 2009 10:35 pm

Tasha, what's the occasion on the 7th?

Bobie · Post by **Bobie** » Sun Jan 11, 2009 11:58 pm

well i was very nervous for being my first time out dress well think i be doing it agen and i put a pic in the photo gallery thanks you

Kay · Post by **Kay** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 3:36 am

Bobie

I'm still be hiding behind the front door, it is so good to hear of another girl getting out there. Great choice of outfit too.

Kay

Kyra · Post by **Kyra** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 4:01 pm

Way to go, Bobie! I'm glad you had a pleasant first experience. Good luck on your next outing.

Kyra

Anita · Post by **Anita** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 6:35 pm

Yes, good luck on that next one, Bobie.

JoAnnDallas · Post by **JoAnnDallas** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 8:04 pm

TashaM wrote

I'm a bit nervious, but looking forward to it. As I'll be among about 14 girls.

This can be a great way to go out for the first time.

I remember my first PUBIC outing where I got close up with other people, both straight and CDer's. It was Holiday Em Fem 2006. Yes it was a CD Convention but that just made it easier, since everyone knew what the Con was, and I was among other CDers.

TashaM · Post by **TashaM** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 10:10 pm

Erin L: it's a Themed get together at a Tea House, They are aiming to have about 20 people attend, so we can have the whole tea house to our selves.

Post by **DonnaT** » Tue Jan 13, 2009 2:53 pm

Good for you Bobie. Congratulations.

Erin L · Post by **Erin L** » Tue Jan 13, 2009 7:11 pm

TashaM wrote:Erin L: it's a Themed get together at a Tea House, They are aiming to have about 20 people attend, so we can have the whole tea house to our selves.

Sounds lovely. Enjoy!!

Stephanie W · Post by **Stephanie W** » Sat Jan 17, 2009 8:16 pm

Congratulations Bobie. You'll never forget that first time! Good luck for the next....and next....and next.....

Stephanie

Jamie Ann · Post by **Jamie Ann** » Tue Jan 20, 2009 12:49 am

Dear Bobie,

Congratulations, Bobie, on taking the plunge. As you probably will discover, there is much advantage in cultivating the friendship of a group of girls in your area and socialing in public as a group. For those who can afford them, conferences such as the Southern Comfort Conference and the Chicago Be-All offer offer very stress-free settings in which to dress en femme for several days, with interesting activities as well.