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Victoria
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Post by Victoria »

Hello my name is Victoria I am 53 yrs old and have been dressing since I was 10 yrs old either for real or in my mind. I finally came to a realization that this is who I am this year after hiding it, putting it in a box, being ashamed of it and after wasting many dollars in purging perfectly good clothing, shoes and accessories just because I thought I needed to be more of a man. What is becoming clear to me now is that the man I am is also the girl I am and its ok to be her to. I am both together nurturer, friend, compatriot, husband, father, and co-worker. I have girlfriends as Victoria and also as Michael and I am grateful for an opportunity to develop even more on groups such as this. Thank-you for allowing me the opportunity to let you know me.
Vicki
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Post by SilverLady(SO) »

Hi, Victoria, and welcome to the Forum!!

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Post by Gwen Lee »

Welcome Victoria. I'm sure you will love our family.
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Re: Hi Girls

Post by Kay »

Victoria wrote:What is becoming clear to me now is that the man I am is also the girl I am and its ok to be her to.
I like that =D>

Hi Vicki
Welcome to this wonderful forum from one of the olde English ladies
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Post by Leeza »

Welcome Victoria to our grooup of friendly people.

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Post by DonnaT »

Hi Victoria, -wel- to the forum. From another 53 yr old.
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Post by Jemima »

Hi Victoria

A warm welcome to the forum Victoria, look forward to your postings

Jemima :love:
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Post by April Rose »

Hello, Victoria, and welcome! It seems a good many of us at this forum are over 50.
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Virginia
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Post by Virginia »

Hi Vicki,

Finding yourself is a very rewarding aspect of our lives.

There is an old urban legend about a crossdresser who was being hassled late one night in an IHOP. She was with some friends and the "perp" was distracting everyone in the place. Well as the girl was leaving, she stopped at the perp's table and her response was something like this." honey I'm more woman than you could ever handle and more man than you will ever be!" rumor is she got an ovation from all the other patrons!

We have to learn to be proud of our "gift."

Hope you choose to stay and share with us!

Virginia
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Post by Lucy Michelle »

Hi Victoria,

a warm welcome 8)
Lucy xx
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Post by EmilyN »

hi Victoria, you certainly aren't alone in your history or realizations....welcome home girlfriend!
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Thank-you

Post by Victoria »

Thank-you all for the warm welcome. I really look forward to getting to know all of you and your stories.
Vicki
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Post by Stephanie W »

Welcome Victoria. Just be who you are and you'll never be unhappy. Glad to have you with us.

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Post by JulieJ »

*-* *-* Hi, Victoria, and welcome to the Forum *-* :love:
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Post by Diannna »

Hi Victoria,
Glaad to see you made it to our forum. Enjoy.
Hugs,
Diana
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