It is OVER

Carol Ann · Post by **Carol Ann** » Sun Feb 22, 2009 4:05 pm

This is a follow up to everyone, on my thread " Wondering and Hurting".
First and foremost all the love and understanding I got from everyone is what makes this forum what it is. LOVE

I am sorry I can not reply to everyone questions about what is going on as there are no words to say thank you for all your support.

Today Sunday the local law showed up with family services and the two boys are gone and I have to got to court to see the local judge.

In a way it's bad and in a way it's good as to tell the truth I couldn't support them. Yes I can feed them and cloth them and give them love but that's about all I can do.

And my biggest Bitc* with some of the reply I got is this had nothing to do with crossdressing .

In my heart I love each and everyone of you, you are my sisters and my GG friends.

Not to worry Carol will be fine but my heart will be heavy for the boys as I have been there!

Love to all as I need you'al
Carol Ann

Edyta_C · Post by **Edyta_C** » Sun Feb 22, 2009 5:55 pm

I am so sorry that this happened. It is amazing to me how vindictive some can be over a misunderstanding (Cding or anything). The children get hurt and perhaps never understand what has happened. In my wifes divorce, her ex never lived up to his promises and to his legal obligations. Now 15 yrs later, both kids regard me as more of a father than their real dad.

One can only hope and pray that your boys will see thru the smoke she is blowing and recognize (later) that you do truly love and care for them more than their Mom. Our prayers go out to you in this time of pain.

Edy

Lydia · Post by **Lydia** » Mon Feb 23, 2009 7:56 am

Dear Carol,

Thanks for the update. We've been waiting for it.

Your heart is as big as all outdoors - and we love you for it. But there comes a time when the head and practicality has to take over. Consider what your primary responsibilities are and how much more you can handle without compromising the primaries.

Personally, I'll be looking forward to seeing more of your comments here, and in the chatroom.

Much love and hugs,

Lydia

Absaroka · Post by **Absaroka** » Mon Feb 23, 2009 8:08 am

Carol I am really sorry that things have come to this.

Love, shelter, and food is not bad-you'd have done a good job I am sure.

Absaroka

Leeza · Post by **Leeza** » Mon Feb 23, 2009 9:17 am

Carol, Thanks for the update. Love shelter and food are the most important with love being the most important. Somewhere in there though we need to keep our sanity. (what is sanity from someone who has raised 10 kids)

I trust your instincts and will suport as I can your decision.

Leeza

Anita · Post by **Anita** » Wed Feb 25, 2009 2:44 am

Hi Carol Ann--
I think it will probably be for the best. You did the honorable thing, and offered to take them in, but it would have been a strain on you. I have experiences with the foster care system, and it isn't all horrible.

And my biggest Bitc* with some of the reply I got is this had nothing to do with crossdressing .

I'm not sure why this was a hot button with you. I didn't assume that crossdressing was your primary concern in this case, but it would be odd for me to ignore it completely, too. It had been a concern at another time when people were sharing the house with you.