Monday morning, coming down...

[Erin L]

I have never done that. However, a couple of weeks ago, I did have a day that I had taken, and then (because I am now running my department) logged on to check e-mail and make sure there were no problems - alas, there were, and I wound up working five hours.

[Kerri]

Hi Robyn,
I changed Monday for Sunday because that was the day I had to chenge back from Kerri to Jim.

Its always a wrench taking away something you desire and enjoy too. I know from experience how hard that can be. Like you I was in a job where coming out meant end of job. I was in the military services at a time when men were men, and any display of a feminine personality trait was quickly spotted. As a result I bore the brunt of a large number of "gay or sissie" jibes from my colleagues.

I wouldnt like to think you will regret mixing your femme side so openly with your drab side at work. But I would suggest caution about mixing gender modes while at work. Is it possible you have overestimated the bad result any expression of femininity may bring bring to your job?

I ask this because in my experience we cross-dressers feed off of the thrill of dressing and going out en-femme to such an extent that we take unnecessary risks which often results in our detection.

Personally my personality has remained the same, but I have not needed to dress for over a year. At first it was because the clothes did not change anything, and I stopped getting any joy from wearing them.

But also for the last eighteen months I have been masquerading in SecondLife as a genetic female. I have had several male friends who believe I am a girl. I buy and wear the latest fashions and mix with a group of about twelve other "girls" and also have a steady boyfriend.

Take care Robyn, enjoy it while you are able.
I will just say hello to all my old friends in the Forum now; its been a long time since I posted. Good to see you back Beauty.

love you all

Kerri

[Patti D]

Went camping last week and stayed in fem the whole weekend, coming home was terrible, so I extended the trip until I got home. Almost got caught by a fellow worker, who we pasted on the road. He said he was waving at us until he saw a woman driving the truck. glad he didn't follow me home.

[Kerri]

Oh my god Tammie I cant believe you pasted the guy on the road just because he worked with you. I hope we dont meet on the same stretch of road.

Kerri

[CJ]

Still, meeting a colleague while we're en femme can be a sticky situation.

CJ

[Kerri]

If there is a chance of meeting a colleague while en femme, which may have undesirable consequences. Then consider the risk of such an encounter before travelling en femme.

I took the chance several times, but my luck ran out eventually. When it did indeed run out there was no going back, I had to develop the bottle to face the consequential ridicule on a daily basis. I was in all honesty quite lucky. In a matter of two years the deed was forgotten. But I know of people in the same circumstances who have literally been driven out!

An old saying applies here, "Dont play with fire on your own doorstep".

cheers

Kerri