seeking relate-abillity. is it wrong to do?

[KimberlyS]

Georgia, you said that I "seem to be disturbed at your own reaction". And in a way I guess I am or maybe a better term may be just surprised. As she does not seem to really want to talk about this subject. She brings it up but does not really want to talk about it, gives me limited feed back after I finally get my brain engaged into the subject and then does not want to talk about it any more lately finishing with a comment like " well you just do not understand". Hey I would like to. But it does not seem to be a subject she wants to talk to be about. Yea I know I am not a woman and to make it worse I am a cder. I guess she wants me to know she is thinking about it but not talk with me about it.

Carolynn, do not shut up I do enjoy your posts. And thank you for the book suggestion. Another good book on this subject is "Her Needs, His Needs" as it covers also how men an women often communicate differently.

Yes I have heard of depression as my wife suffers from it greatly along with fibromialgia. Both affect my wife greatly and our whole family in dealing with it.

Again I am not trying to tell her she can not do it. More just the opposite, I am trying to carry on a conversation about it. Especially since she has brought it up now quite a few times. Which I am sure then she is thinking about it more and more. And yea I can blindly accept what ever she wants to do. But I am in a relationship/marriage and I would like a little more information . But the way some things go with her I will most likely find out when she has it scheduled a week ahead of time. That is usually how she does things. I get bits of information here and there not knowing she is seriously about something. And then suddenly she is doing it and I get the "well if it is ok with you". Like I have any say in it as she has already made the decision. Well after 20 years I do not think things will change much.

Thanks again for the comments.

kim

[Alvina_SO]

Kimberly,
If you really want a bit of a clue of what it is like to be well endowed. Just see what it is like having about 8+ pounds strapped to your chest 24 hours a day for the rest of your life. You might think differently. I know several women who have had breast reduction surgery and they are much happier now and feel a lot better about themselves.

[DanteCarrie (FTM)]

this is really interesting even as a female i can't relate with my B cups. i like bigger boobs than mine but wouldn't smaller than Ds be better cas well you know they stay north longer haha. my sister is a double D and i know for a fact min will always be perkier