Greetings + question.

DanteCarrie (FTM) · Post by **DanteCarrie (FTM)** » Tue Nov 24, 2009 11:04 am

hi I'm carissa. found this site by accident looking for places that sell clothes for people trying to cross dress and it looks interesting.

but erm is this place just for m-f crossdressers? seems to be dominated by that.

I'm a 18 year old kind of genderqueer female. I am not transexual but loath being seen as feminine or girly. I like to portray a masculine persona of myself. i feel very uncomfortable if people see me as feminine so i try my best to dress androgynously which is hard as I'm very tiny and 'cute' as my partner says lol. I'm ok with never being able to pass as a boy although that would be a cool experience yet impossible but i like to wear tuxs and suits and men's clothes etc.
but i don't mind wearing typically 'female' clothes if I'm alone with my partner and no one can see otherwise it just upsets me. I also like to wear gothic clothes
erm I'm at University of Liverpool studying philosophy which is ok and got on lgbt committee which is fun. I'm left wing atheist who loves animals.

Susan · Post by **Susan** » Tue Nov 24, 2009 11:51 am

Hi Carrisa

welcome from another Liverpudlian

No this place is not just for M-F CDs we welcome everyone here. You have stumbled across what I feel is the friendliest place on the Internet. Feel free to ask questions - you will find plenty of people willing and able to answer them.

Pop into the chatroom sometime and meet some of the girls.

I hope to see you there sometime.

Best wishes

Post by **DonnaT** » Tue Nov 24, 2009 1:12 pm

Hi Carissa,

to the forum.

We are not an exclusive group, but you may find more F2M CDs on Roses forum a predominately UK site, and many of the same guys on Crossdressers.com

Leeza · Post by **Leeza** » Tue Nov 24, 2009 3:17 pm

Hi Carissa, and welcome.

Leeza

SilverLady(SO) · Post by **SilverLady(SO)** » Tue Nov 24, 2009 8:59 pm

Hi, and welcome to the Forum!

Yes, our forum members are primarily MTF CDs, their SOs and family, but you are welcome here. We do have 2 other FTM CDs as members, but they have not visited the forum in several years.

We look forward to your participation, so don't be shy!

- SL

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Tue Nov 24, 2009 10:08 pm

Hi Carissa,

Ah diversity, ain't it great!!!!?

We would love to have you stay and share your views with us.

Virginia

Christina Huffman · Post by **Christina Huffman** » Tue Nov 24, 2009 10:21 pm

I have a lesbian friend who also identifies as genderqueer - she hates being called "girly" as well, hates shaving, and usually dresses androgynously. Even though I'm a MTF transsexual, I still learned a lot from her and she really helped me through gender identity issues last spring. I think in a similar way you might still be able to gain a lot from this forum and hope you stay.

April Rose · Post by **April Rose** » Tue Nov 24, 2009 11:37 pm

Hi, Dante, Welcome! Oh, to be tiny and cute....and 18 again!

DanteCarrie (FTM) · Post by **DanteCarrie (FTM)** » Wed Nov 25, 2009 2:43 am

Thank you guys this place sounds really welcoming and fun

Michelle Miller · Post by **Michelle Miller** » Wed Nov 25, 2009 9:17 pm

Welcome to our little supportive & friendly corner of the interwebs.

Zeta · Post by **Zeta** » Mon Nov 30, 2009 9:37 am

Hi Dante

I think you and my wonderful wife would get along; she wears cotton undies, jeans and sweatshirts and her hair is maybe an inch long, cut at least every month.

But she's a woman - and I'm so happy she is!