So how did you pick your name
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My wife picked it out two weeks after I came out to her, while we were dating.
She helped me change on a friday night while we were house sitting for her mom one weekend. She jumped on the internet and started looking between a list of girls names and me. She said I most looked like a Kayla, so it stuck.
That was the first weekend of many where I would stay en femme full time. It was so GREAT!
Otherwise, I think it would have probably taken what my mother would've named me had I been a born a girl: Sharron. Of course now that I've become so used to identifying myself as Kayla, I think I look nothing like a Sharron.

She helped me change on a friday night while we were house sitting for her mom one weekend. She jumped on the internet and started looking between a list of girls names and me. She said I most looked like a Kayla, so it stuck.
Otherwise, I think it would have probably taken what my mother would've named me had I been a born a girl: Sharron. Of course now that I've become so used to identifying myself as Kayla, I think I look nothing like a Sharron.
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I think I have answered this elsewhere but here goes again.
I picked Susan as it is a name that has figured large in my life, from my first adolescent crush on Susan Dey (Partridge Family) through Susan St James who I think has the most sexy voice ever to my friend in Southern California who is 6' 2" in her bare feet. MY daughter's second name is Susan.
All the Susans I have met have been lovely people and I hope I can continue in that manner. If I had been born a girl, I would have been called Claire but that name does not fit me.
I am proud to be a Susan
I picked Susan as it is a name that has figured large in my life, from my first adolescent crush on Susan Dey (Partridge Family) through Susan St James who I think has the most sexy voice ever to my friend in Southern California who is 6' 2" in her bare feet. MY daughter's second name is Susan.
All the Susans I have met have been lovely people and I hope I can continue in that manner. If I had been born a girl, I would have been called Claire but that name does not fit me.
I am proud to be a Susan
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Choosing a Name
I chose my name because my first name is the same as my wife's best friend. My last name is a family name used on both sides and the initals are the same as my real name. Debbie
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I choose my femme name because a previous forum I was a member of they would hound any MTF CDer that they needed a femme name. So at the time I conformed and picked a femme name that is similar of my male name for lack of any better ideas. I have thought of changing it to a femme name that I like better or just back to a male name as that is really who I am is a guy in femme clothes. But it is not a strong pull for me to change so I do not. In fact when I go to counseling I just told them to go by my male name no matter what mode I am in. So they do and it does not bother me as that is who I am no matter how I am dressed.
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I am a physically male person that likes to wear feminine clothes at times.
Just trying keep a balance for my self along with keeping my wife and kids in mind.
I am a physically male person that likes to wear feminine clothes at times.
Just trying keep a balance for my self along with keeping my wife and kids in mind.
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I needed a name for the forum and at the time, I noticed all the members had fem names. Up to that point, I never really thought about a name for my fem self. My wife helped me pick this one.
At first I was thinking of Karen, or maybe Kristen. But Amber said, "No, you don't look like a Karen or Kristen." So I asked her who I did look like. She said, "How about Kyra?"
...and so it came to be...
At first I was thinking of Karen, or maybe Kristen. But Amber said, "No, you don't look like a Karen or Kristen." So I asked her who I did look like. She said, "How about Kyra?"
...and so it came to be...
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Wanted a Nice,Feminine name that couldn't be shortened into Male e.g.jo-joanne.At the time I started out on my journey.there was a few Sophie's about And I thought it was really pretty,so that was it,my wife thought I should have a middle name.So Sophie Louise I bacame xx
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