Dressing for ur mother..

How are you dealing with or handling this aspect of your life?

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Rik
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Dressing for ur mother..

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Some time after I told my folks bout my CD'ing my mother asked if she could see me cd'd.
This is a tough decision, not only for my own personal reasons, but she suffer's from Bi-Polar depression and has done for 15+ years.

The question I find myself asking is im I ready for this? is She ready for this?
I can possibly answer my own question..but I feel I also have to answer the same question for my mother.

I do wonder what she will get out of seeing me dressed, and how will it affect her, and me?

will she wana see it more? or just the once?
I had an idea..she likes to walk the dog, maybe if I dressed for her and asked to walk the dog with her.. would help to get me out..maybe its to much for my mother tho...
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Post by CharLee »

Rik,

That sounds like it might be a good idea. If she has asked to see you dressed as a woman, ask her if she would mind if you walk the dog with her while en femme. If she agrees it could serve as a two-fold benefit for you. 1) You can talk to her as you walk the dog about your Cding and get her reaction without worring about your fathers' reaction, and 2) it will help you in getting over your fear of going out en femme in the daytime.

In any event, I am hoping she will be accepting of your dressing and give you advice and help on being the woman you want to be.

Good luck
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Post by JoAnnDallas »

If you have some pictures of yourself dressed, you might try showing them to her at first.
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