Have you been caught?

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Lacy Mitchell
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I had been dressing for several years when my brother caught me in a old swimsuit my mother had stored in a closet in a spare bedroom.I had just put it on and was looking at myself in a mirror when i heard the door i jumped in the closet but to late. he just smiled and left never said a word i thought ok dodged a bullet nope.a day later the family all together eating dinner my brother told me to get him a drink i said no. he said (in front of my parents ) do you want me tell mom and dad what you were doing yesterday . this went on for several weeks before he quit. he never said anythig again. but i was paranoid for years. #-o lacy
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Post by Alizee_Noelle »

Oh, I've been caught the first time I actually crossdressed, I was about 7 or 8, but it's not a very interesting story. Mom walked in, wanting to water the flowers, and there I was, frozen (or, rather, shaking) in a pink bodysuit.

Since then I had a couple of cache busts, and I still haven't talked things out with my folks, and they never said a thing. Unfortunately, neither did I.
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I think my hairdresser felt my bra when cuttibng my hair a couple of years ago. I always wear a bra, but I don't worry now and just wear
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Post by DanteCarrie (FTM) »

not really i never hide that i wear men's shirts and underwear. I go out in it otherwise what would be the point. also its harder for women to CD than men not in the reaction or judgment we get oh no thats easier as you all know how hypocritical it is that girls can wear their boyfriends clothes or dress bland and wear trousers etc no i mean its harder to actually crossdress as very little counts as crossdressing for a girl unless its formal wear or even if you are wearing men's clothes most people won't realise and just think you are dressing casual baggy clothes unless they actual see your topman label so the negative judgment or caughtness is not an issue but actualy being seen and perceived the way you desire is.
The only sense i have been caught is wearing a tux but i went to a ball that way so me being open not being caught being secretive.
I guess the only way i can be caught is when I'm secretly at home stuffiing my boxers, wearing nothing else. i never go out with stuffed boxers what would be the point i guess. but never been caught so much as showed my mum she just laughed at me. thought she was a tiny bit of a bitch. shes ok with me being butch but she doesn't understand it cas she thinks i should wear what makes me look good whether its butch or femme and she does not understand my strong desire not to be femme in front of my friends as she makes dumbass comments about it like I'm just doing it so i can have something to 'kickoff' about and argue about and feel victimised about or she'll say if being femme bothers you that much how will it work out with harry and i even though shes knows I'm femme in front of me.
so shes difficult in that way but yeah never been caught just been honest and she just laughed and said those things so erm yeah stuffed is the only way i can be 'caught'
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Post by Christopher D. »

Way back when I was 12 and dressing for the second time, In a wedding gown that was hanging in the attic, my brother came up to tell me dinner was ready. I told him to go back down and I would be right there. He went, i changed and left the dress on the floor and hurried down. No one said anything to me about dressing, but my mother asked me if I wanted her to help clean up up stairs and I said no. I should of said yes. Oh for missed opportunities.
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Getting caught

Post by Julieann »

I have been caught three times; the first time by my brother when I was fully dressed. The second by my SO after 6 years of marriage. I had to purge my bras, panties and forms.
The last time was a year ago - she has allowed me to keep my feminine wardrobe and has told me she has been aware of my continual dressing.
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Post by Shannon B »

I got caught by a female co-worker.

I was wearing panties under a thin summer pair of slacks. I bent over to pick something up and she was standing behind me. I guess the panty line and gusset line showed through my slacks. My coworker said "nice butt.......and panty lines" which threw me into a panic. She said not to worry, she was not going to tell anyone.

From that point on, she would often come into my office and ask me what colour I was wearing that day and I would tell her. Our relationship did not go beyond that (although I would have loved to) and she left the company about two years later. After that, I lost track of her.
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Post by Mány B »

I remember experimenting with makeup. Of course I did my utmost best to remove every last trace. I must however have forgotten a few details because at a certain moment I had a bottle of make-up remover on my washing table.
Nothing more was said about it but still it was a clear message. A missed opportunity to come out.
Strange how often in the previous posts as well as mine, nothing is said although one is clearly caught.
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Post by Lacy Mitchell »

Many b I think we put them in shock or that its so akward they dont know what to say kinda like giving the sex talk to a child. I call it deer in the head light syndrome. :oops:
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Post by Karren Hutton »

Technically I have never been caught enfemme by anyone... My stuff has been discovered by the wife so she knows.. But she has not seen me dressed. I've had many close calls like in February when the son came home with his friends. And there I was.. I made it to the bedroom before he got the front door open. Whew! I did "expose" crossdressing to my brother when we were young and he went on to try it a few times and he got caught.. Does that count? Lol.
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