How many of us sit to pee??????

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Always when dressed and usually when in drab...its easier :) Actually my wife likes it when I sit.
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I always sit unless (a) there's a urinal or (b) I am using a bathroom that appears to not be clean.

I think there's a political dimension in making the above choice: women have to sit, so as a feminist male I make the same choice so that I don't cause more clean-up work than women do. This logic may not hold water, but it describes what's going on in my head... :-)
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I really only sit down when I am dressed and always sit in a ladies room
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It's funny, but the sitting vs. standing debate is actually something I feel pretty strongly about. I think it's rude and inconsiderate for men to pee standing unless it's into a urinal. Why? Because urine always splashes onto the rim of the toilet or outside of it. Always. And that's causing more work for the person who has to clean the bathroom, hence why it's inconsiderate to stand.

A childhood friend of mine used to have a poster over his toilet that showed Arnold Schwarzenegger displaying his muscles, pointing his finger at the poster's reader and saying: "You will sit my friend" or something like that.

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Always.........................period.

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Well when out enfemme... Duhhh.. Lol. Except this one time when I was out enfemme and used the mens room and the urinal!! At a park... Had to hike my long skirt way up! Usually in male mode I set... Till lately. I've always had a problem using the urinal in public restrooms.... Till I started going out enfemme.. Since then I can go in any mens room and stand there with the other guys and it doesn't bother me any more! Kind of strange but true? Another undocumented advantage of crossdressing in public!
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I always sit, as I'm always underdressed to some extent, which reminds me to do the feminine thing, unless I can't wait for a stall.
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Definite B. Mens' stalls are usually just too dirty to even think about sitting on.
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As I wear a skirt, girdle, pantyhose and heels most of the time and panties all the time I sit or squat if the stall is dirty. I squat if I need to pee in the woods or parking lot. This is almost spiritual thing for me.

"Male urination is a kind of accomplishment, an arc of transcendence. A woman merely waters the ground she stands on." This accomplishment, Camille Paglia asserts, is 'beyond the scope' of a woman. The arc, and its accompanying powers of 'concentration and projection', are something a woman will 'never master'.

If I give up my arc of transcendence, I give up some of my maleness. Sort of like using the room that has a stick figure wearing a skirt to tell me which room to use. Like it or not, our society is currently binary. There are male things and female things. Guys "take a piss" and women "pee." I have opted for the feminine social role even though I do not want surgery and I am completely heterosexual. Still I have made a choice to enjoy he feminine social role and it is only appropriate then that I pee rather than take a piss. Femininity is more than plumbing or my whole life is a masquerade and I am actually genderless.

Probably more thought than the topic deserves but my thoughts any way.
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When en-femme I always sit. I think it is more relaxing & complete that way.

At work I use the urinals.

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Unless there's some compelling reason to do otherwise, I sit. When I think about it, it seems the feminine thing to do; and I never know when I'll have to kill two birds with one stone, anyway, so why make things complicated? :)
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Post by Absaroka »

All of these answers make me wonder how many non crossdressers men sit to pee. Maybe more than we think, although I don't really notice such things in rest rooms and locker rooms.

I have a bit of a bashful kidney so I often stand in the toilet stall. Yes I lift the seat.............which leads me to Minou's post. Why not simply clean the toilet after you use it?

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I actually heard of some research that said you actually empty your bladder more effectively if you sit down to urinate. So, sitting down would seem to be a much healthier way to relieve yourself. :)
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Since I always wear panties I always sit to pee. It doesn't matter if I am dressed or in drab, home or out and about. It has just become automatic with me to sit.
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When fem, I sit. When drab, it's a mood thing. One thing is for sure, this girl won't be sitting in some nasty icky stall; regardless of how I'm dressed, that icky stall will cause me to make a trip elsewhere.

I love the GG girls that say they hover. It's probably their fault they potty got to be so nasty int he first place.
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