Living as a CD with your wife

General talk about CD/TGing and gender topics that aren't necessarily fun things we do while en femme, or for gender-driven discussions.

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Living as a CD with your wife

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My wife now accepts me in female dress most evenings anda friend , also a cd, has suggested she finds me company, as a girl. She is certainly supportive and compliments my dress choice. I try to and be fully cross-dressed from a bra outward. She has give me some of what I wear and even bought me a nightie and recently a uni-sex roll-neck sweater. It will look lovely with a skirt or trews. My friend has suggested what response will a kiss and cuddle have. I have had a feminine trend all my life and wouidl love to go that little bit more. Girls your thoughts would be helpful and appreciated.
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Kittie

I am very happy for you. I cannot give you advice as my own circumstances are diametrically opposite. Enjoy what you have.

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Re: Living as a CD with your wife

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Kittie wrote:a friend , also a cd, has suggested she finds me company, as a girl.
Not exactly sure what you mean by finds you a company.

If she means find you a male companion, I would think that is quite a bit much to expect of a wife.
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Re: Living as a CD with your wife

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DonnaT wrote:
Kittie wrote:a friend , also a cd, has suggested she finds me company, as a girl.
Not exactly sure what you mean by finds you a company.

If she means find you a male companion, I would think that is quite a bit much to expect of a wife.
My thoughts exactly, but to each her own. Myself, I enjoy my wife's company when en femme. Dressing by myself is good, but much better when she is with me.
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I think I mean enjoys my company as a female
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Whenever I get together with most of my girl friends in my Tri-Ess chapter, we are almost always en fem mode. In fact there are a couple of the girls that I have never seen in male mode.
I am now about 75% fem clothed and 25% male clothed. I wear fem under pants, bra, and camie most every day. At night fem PJ's and If not both then at least one of the two days on the weekend. Now that both my GP doctor and my VA doctor know I am Trans, I even wear my fem undies when I see them.
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My wife sees me every evening and night in lingerie, including wearing some very pretty lacy slips. Although she knows I fully CD, she has caught me a few times, she does not want me to push the boundary with her.

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Post by Davita »

I'm almost always wearing a fem outfit (okay, a set of comfy fem things that, today, don't even come close to being matched) when I'm home. I sleep in nightgowns or fem PJs. At home, you won't often catch me in a skirt or just lingerie. I think my mother-in-law is the only woman I know who wears a skirt at home.

Ro has seen me every which way a girl comes. She's taken some of my pictures posted on my web site (and Flickr). We don't make anything of me dressing except when Ro worries about getting caught.
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Post by Paula G »

Like Susan my situation is different, my wife is aware of my cross dressing, but would rather it didn't happen, and if it must then she doesn't want to know about it. If you are accepted at any level within your most important relationship, enjoy the privilege
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