Lucky Me

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CharLee
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Post by CharLee »

As some of you know I will be out of work for the rest of the year due to the fact that I have reached my earning limit allowed by Social security. So I will be be free to dress everyday if I choose ( not much of a choice ... LOL )but with my wife's attitude lately that meant only when she wasn't at home. I would have to change back into drab before she came home, which I never want to do.

With all the free time I will have I wanted to stay en femme 24/7 but knew she wouldn't go along with that idea. I wanted to talk to her about this and see if she would be willing to allow me that privilege but was fearful of her response. I was looking for a way to address this issue with her without her going balistic but couldn't come up with anything.

Then lo and behold a miracle happened. This past Saturday while we were playing on our computers the server went down. I must preface this by saying I was dressed at this time and she didn't get upset. Anyway, the server was down for quite some time so my wife suggested we have a little interlude in the bedroom with me still en femme. I won't go into details but it was well worth it :lol:

Afterwards she initiated a discussion about my dressing in which I brought up my desire to be dressed everyday this month for the whole day without changing into drab. Meaning that for the rest of the month only CharLee will be around the house 24 / 7. After mulling the idea over for awhile she said " it's a deal" but with stipulations, I have to do all the housework, except cooking, plus what I would normally do in malee mode. Now those of you who know me know I relish doing the housework whenever I am en femme so this wasn't a hard thing to agree too.

So I am happy to announce that from here to the end of the month " CharLee" will have her days in the sun, and nights in the bed. I am on such a high because now I can experience what I have wanted to do and be for an extended period of time. This will give me the chance to be the woman I feel I should be and live as that woman for the next three weeks non stop.

I am hoping against hope that after these 3 weeks are up my wife will become so comfortable and accepting of having CharLee around that I will be able to continue to be en femme from here on out. Wish me luck !!!
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Words fail me. the only thing I cancome up with is AWESOME! :love: :love:
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Post by Paula G »

Wonderful, maybe when your wife sees how happy and productive you are she will be well disposed to CharLee in future
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Post by Anne »

Wonderful news. Hopefully she doesn't run you ragged. Best wishes, Anne
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Do you live on 34th Street? 8)
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Post by Michelle M »

You're a lucky gal! I'm jealous! :mrgreen:
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Char, I know it is something you have wanted to do for a long time and I am glad you are able to do it.

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Post by Anita »

This brings tears to my eyes, Charlee. That is such good news! Maybe at the end of this month you can voluntarily go back to the old ways for another month. This would demonstrate that you're willing to do 'baby steps.' But who knows how that will play out--right now you have a great situation.
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Post by Joan »

Wonderful Charlee, that is a deal I would also accept.

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how lucky you are


(removed whole quote, ks)
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Post by Davita »

kkkkeeeeeewwwwwllllll Charlee! Hopefully the three weeks last the whole three weeks and hopefully you get more time after that.

I got my fingers and legs crossed for ya.
{squeezes}
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Post by Kimberly Kael »

I'm very happy for you. Having the extended 24/7 opportunity is a wonderful way to indulge yourself and learn a little about how you respond at the same time. Kudos to your wife for recognizing that this is important to you and giving you her approval.
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Go, girl(s)!!!!!
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Post by PhylissH »

Hey Char,
I am very happy for you. I don't have to tell you how I feel about that. I am not sure I could go back to drab if I could dress for a month.
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Post by Erica S »

CharLee, I too am happy for you. Enjoy every minute!

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