How do I go out ?

[JoAnnDallas]

One the best ways is to use a Transformation Service. In Dallas, Tx there is a service call "Transformation Expressions". My friend Nikkie runs the service. She will take just you out or even better a group of TG girls. Going with another or two really helps and if one is a GG, even better. Another way is to go to a Transgender Convention, like "Holiday En Fem" that Tri-Ess sponsers. The last one that my wife and I went to was a Cruise. We had almost 60 TG girls and SO's on board. All of the crew treated us with respect. Many of the other cruisers found out about our group and came up to ask questions and some wanted their pictures taken with us. So you can go out by yourself, with another TG girl or two, or a group. I have been told that going out with another TG girl or two or a group is 100% easier than going out by yourself.

[KimberlyS]

The first thing is if and when you are ready you will go out. If you are not ready between your ears do not push it. If and when you are ready between your ears and you will do it.

The first time I went out I was out of town and it was the best thing I did. Being out of town I went out with the attitude that it did not matter what others thought I would never see them again. It got me out the door.

Some other things I did some of what others have said:
- Going out with a friend does make it easier to do. But if you are ready you will do it alone also.
- I walked where I was going the night before to be comfortable with the location and the route I was going.
- Go some place safe with some people and a mix of people. A mall or similar public place is good to go out in.
- Dress in attire that will blend with others at the location that you are going to. This will draw less attention to you. People will still look at you just because people look at each other.

And most important relax and enjoy yourself.

kimberlys - cd
joe in a skirt