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Alan · Post by **Alan** » Mon Jul 16, 2012 10:40 am

hello all
Im the husband of Bel(SO) who joined last week and posted in the forum
Been CDing since about 6yrs old and told my wife the full extent about 2 weeks ago and she has been absolutely brilliant about it
thanks to the help from yourselves on this forum and others, im really looking foward to chatting to everyone and getting advice from you all x

Paula G · Post by **Paula G** » Mon Jul 16, 2012 10:47 am

Hi, and

Leslie. You will find we are only too happy to give advice ~ hey sometimes the trouble can be stopping us

Alan · Post by **Alan** » Mon Jul 16, 2012 10:51 am

Hi Paula

nice to meet you , its taken me a while to pluck up the courage to come on here but i think im starting to accept who i am !

Paula G · Post by **Paula G** » Mon Jul 16, 2012 10:57 am

Once you accept who you are, that's when the fun begins. For most of us we go through years of trying to deny who or what we are with all the attendant angst depressions and conflict, the hard part is that self acceptance, after that most of the problems become purely practical ones.

Carol Ann · Post by **Carol Ann** » Mon Jul 16, 2012 11:19 am

Hi Leslie

,

Hay a lot of truth in what Paula told you, but hon you have come to the right place for other like yourself who are CD'er.
Sweetheart ask away as we all are all ears and always willing to help out a sister and yes her SO.

I believe the time difference to Scotland and across the pond

is 6 or 7 hours, so you will have to adjust your time for the States to chat but believe the girls in the UK are close to your time zone.

So you both enjoy yourself and have fun with like people.

Alan · Post by **Alan** » Mon Jul 16, 2012 11:40 am

Hi Carol Ann
nice too meet you , i feel a lot better already just by joining and starting to chat but still have the guilt trip at times

Kiera · Post by **Kiera** » Mon Jul 16, 2012 11:48 am

hi ya nice to meet you

Carol Ann · Post by **Carol Ann** » Mon Jul 16, 2012 1:20 pm

Leslie,

Now that is not what I want to hear from you, come on now you are Leslie and be proud of it. Now you said your wife is happy as can be and excepts Leslie. Now why do you have a guilt trip?, you got the world so enjoy and have some fun

Post by **DonnaT** » Mon Jul 16, 2012 3:09 pm

Hi Leslie,

to the forum.

CharLee · Post by **CharLee** » Mon Jul 16, 2012 3:20 pm

Hi Leslie and

,

As both Carol and Paula have said, the first thing you have to do is to totally accept thiss part of you and have no guilt about it. Once you do that, your confidence level will build up and you will find the joy in being Leslie.

So adjust your seat belt and enjoy the ride, I assure you that you will learn to embrace your femme side more and more. $\:D/$

Melinda Welsh · Post by **Melinda Welsh** » Mon Jul 16, 2012 3:23 pm

Hello and welcome Leslie

Alan · Post by **Alan** » Mon Jul 16, 2012 4:53 pm

Yeah you are all right , i need to get it completely out my system and accept myself for who i am, its such a big step for me to take , probably bigger than when i started my business
was lisning to my folks when they came over today and theres no way i could ever tell them

Cassandra Lynn · Post by **Cassandra Lynn** » Mon Jul 16, 2012 4:57 pm

Hiya Leslie and

to the group, it's very nice meeting both you and your wonderful wife.

Leeza · Post by **Leeza** » Mon Jul 16, 2012 5:14 pm

Hi, Leslie, and

to our home on the internet.

Leeza

Alan · Post by **Alan** » Mon Jul 16, 2012 5:15 pm

Hi Cass nice to meet you !

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