Question

[Mersades]

I like to wear at least one item of female clothing at all times. Usually it is a pair of panties or pantyhose. However, I sometimes will wear a blouse or female slacks. Does this mean I want to get "caught"?

[Davita]

It depends on what you're thinking when you make the decision. If you're thinking I hope no one notices.... or you're thinking how exciting.....

[Anne Bonny]

I agree. Female polo shirts in a black or navy or and olive green may not be noticed but ladies notice lots of things. Female jeans with their styling may or may not be noticed but again ladies may notice. Panties, bras - unless that is all you are wearing will probably not be noticed unless your shirt is too open or if a strap shows, or can be seen because the shirt is tight, or you wear a white or thin shirt. If you are doing it for a thrill you are probably risking being caught or noticed.

[Kittie]

I think I would like to get caught so I can come oput in the open
my only male wear today is a shirt and trousers all the rest is female

[DonnaT]

Depends on your mindset. When I wear something It's not with the intent of getting caught.

[KimberlyS]

Most days I am in a mix of masculine and feminine clothes also yet presenting a male image to the world.

[PhylissH]

Don't know if it means you want to get caught or not. Depends on some of the things the other girls mentioned. I only wear panties I have no male underwear left. I often wear pantyhose under my jeans often without socks. I work outside in shorts and a tee shirt and keep my arms and legs shaved. No one has even seemed to notice or if they have they have said nothing. I am not necessarily looking to get caught, at least I don't think I am, but if some one ever says anything I will have to deal.

[Karin]

I don't view it as 'I want to get caught' so much. It's more of a deep desire to wear or do things a certain way? When I'm out and about, I get a bad dose of the GD every time I see GG looking/wearing/acting a certain way. Why can't I do that? We all know how that goes etc..

I've been 'caught' as you put it, wearing dresses, skirts, blouses, makeup, nail polish, girly hair. You name it and I've been 'caught'. Depending on how well the following convo goes, depends on what happens next. Ask yourself not only 'if' you want to get caught, but 'why?'. And what happens thereafter?

I'm In the fortunate position, that having been busted so many times at home, it's all in the open here and my gender isn't any more of a deal than anyone else's. Kids call me mom sometimes to be cheeky, but it's all in good nature. And at work, I get to go out with girly hair and girly jewelry every day. I am allowed to be me.

Did I do it to get 'caught'? Nope, I just hit a point where I thought ' I just don't care, I need to be me!'

[Mersades]

I think deep down there is a part of me that wants to get "caught" by someone who accepts my desires and wants to help me. I'm sure this is a theme in many stories, but I'm also sure that it is very, very unlikely to ever happen. The resale shops I frequent have very good values but there are no salespeople and the other customers don't seem to notice me. So, I'll keep shopping, building up a sizable wardrobe, and maybe someone will offer to help me pick out some clothes one day.

[Latanya]

hi mersades
i also wear fem clothes every day. not to get caught but have to admit there is some thrill in pulling it off daily
i go a bit further and i call it my integrated mode. i wear everyday panties, and bra with some padding. in the warm months knee hi's or women's socks. in the winter tights. i do wear lady's jeans (blue, beige, black) but blouses are hard cause i have not found ones that fit me. a bit of mascara and nude lip gloss. its what makes me comfortable so i do it. i get away with it cause i am tall an pretty masculine looking. and i forgot i keep my nails manicured squared, a bit longer than for male and painted pail pink.
i do it for me but there is some thrill involved in pushing my luck in not gettin outed

[Davita]

Mersades, you want some one to help you shop? Silly... just ask a perfect stranger if the combo you picked looks good or not. You don't even have to say who the clothes are for. Today, the brat and I were shopping for her. A lady asked her if the combo top and pants matched. The brat told her to ask me, so she did.

Now if you really need a shopping buddy, you will have to just bite the bullet one day and come out to some one you know/feel will accept you. Surely you have someone you think will be the first one to know about you.