Your secret at work

Tell us about the things you like to do, and what you do, when you go out en femme. All other topics will be moved to appropriate forum.

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Kimberly Kael
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Re: Your secret at work

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Of course there was a time when I carried the same sorts of secrets at work. I enjoyed the freedom to at find at least some form of self-expression, even though it was invariably in ways that I was fwitly sure wouldn't "give me away." Ultimately I found the need to keep the secret somewhat detrimental because it was somewhat isolating and occasionally distracted me from staying focused on work. Still, it was an important part of learning to accept who I am.

These days my "secret" has been completely inverted. Now it's not obvious to the casual observer that I ever lived life under the pretense of identifying as male. A significant part of my journey was deciding that I didn't like the isolation and distraction, though, so I've been careful not to get invested in trying to keep my past under wraps. While I am working for a new employer there are still enough people around who know my history that it's something of an open secret. I'm not certain who knows and who doesn't, and I don't really have any control over the knowledge. As it turns out, that's not a big deal. It's not relevant to the work we do together so it simply doesn't matter.

I sometimes wish I'd realized that a long time ago ... but then I'm not sure it would have been true a long time ago. Hurrah for social progress!
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Re: Your secret at work

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I too underdress at work. I work in a hospital, What i do requires that I wear scrubs every day. In the winter mainly I will underdress with panties, nylons of occasion ( socks for cover) and sometimes when It is cold I will wear a t-shirt with a nylon cami underneath. I have recently worn into work because I leave so early no one is up yet, a bra under a t-shirt, covered up by a sweater and a coat as it is cold or rainy. I can not wear the bra while working. When I leave I change back and secretly remove it when I am home. I do like wearing panites at work.

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I've been wearing only women's panties since 1972. Occasionally I like to add a maxipad, and my current fav are the Always Infinity Radiant Overnights! They have a nice, clean citrus like soap smell! I walk around wondering if anybody else can smell them too!
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I have been getting more ambitious with my Femme. For the past month I have worn lace brief panties everyday to work. I always add baby powder and a splash Of body spray. I love to catch a scent every now and then during The day. It's been cold here, so I added a bra the other day. Pretty scary, but no even gave me a second look. Although I have been asked if I had eye liner on. I must have not washed All my mascara off that morning. Of course I have added some lace Socks and an anklet on occasion. Can't bare to more tag a day without Shaving everything but my arms. God please help the nurses at the Hospital if I ever get hurt. They will definantly be in for a surprise. And I Love my toe nails manicured and painted. Warm Weather is coming, not sure how my wardrobe will change. I'm sure The bra will be put on hold. But we will see.

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What did you say about the eye liner, Donna? And it might be people are noticing but just not worried about it or afraid to ask. At this point, I'm not hiding at w**k any more. I too wear various items that are obviously fem now. Before you could wonder...
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Honestly I could not see any. I slipped off to restroom and checked. Really I just told the truth. I said that I had been cross dressing that night And that they had caught me. Told them I still had my panties on though, which I Did, the did not believe me. I am a field technician for equipment repair. So I'm around Nothing but men all day. I have found that if you tell the truth, they never believe you. When I got home that night, my wife said she could notice it. Oops, I got a kick out of it.

Yesterday, I had on orange nylon (favs) panties with floral design. My pants split at the crotch. I keep spare pair at work, so I casually eased off to rest room for a change. I am really self contious about keeping my shirt tucked in, as not to expose my panties. If that should happen, it would be hard To live down. I have joked about my wife being mad at me and painting my toe nail while I was sleeping. So, not really worried if that was seen. Course my shaved legs would get a second glance. Hehe.
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Sometimes panties, and sometimes pantyhose too. Also like to paint my toes. I used to work in retail, and would take pantyhose from the rack to wear. Those were my younger days, as I don't steal anymore.
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Sometimes undressed in pantyhose, or thigh highs/panties or garter belt/stockings/panties.....sometimes a girdle.

Once it is summer (hot and humid)....nada.

Sometimes a touch of mascara = fun...I have gorgeous eyes
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i used to work in an industrial plant and had to wear a uniform, boots, hard hat all that stuff. i would wear panties and a pair of boxers over them, because i changed into my uniform at work in the locker room with the other workers. i was so scared that some one could see my panties while changing. later while working as a security guard, i used to wear stockings and garters under my uniform. i worked at night alone and would change into an outfit and walk around the site and take photos of myself. now i am mostly out about my CDing, so i dress a little fem all the time, i am always wearing panties. i dress almost every day, i am a house husband/wife.
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House husbands like us get opportunities to do the best things sometimes. :) O:)
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Painted toes in my sheer toe pantyhose, legs shaved every week. Feeling the toe seams on my toes is my reminder.
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I use to work for a furnishing manufacturer and worked in a very macho orientated environment. On a couple of occasions I wore tights under my jeans to work. I dread to think what the consequences would have been had any of my co workers found out. Now I am a self employed artist and work from home and I am now at liberty to wear what I like.
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Today I went out on an interview. For some reason I really felt like dressing this morning. So I put on some silky panties, control pantyhose, my Rago 1294, stockings, and my cincher. I wear my cincher right under my breasts and it pushes them up enough to fill a B cup.
I put on a padded push up bra and then put on my suit. Problem was you could see I had breasts. So I switched to a underwire.

I really felt comfortable. It was exquisite.

Last night we went outside for an event and it was chilly so I wore some under armor long underwear. I never wore them before and realized they felt just like wearing tights.

I always felt self conscious when I wear stockings and pantyhose under my clothes until I realized it was just like wearing long underwear.

Anyways, my wife came home from work and gave me a hug. I almost died. She doesn't know I dress but felt my cincher, which she does know I sometimes wear when my back hurts. If she had felt me wearing a bra I am sure she would have blown a gasket.
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Re: Your secret at work

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I need to get an ankle bracelet.
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Re: Your secret at work

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Mike P. wrote:I need to get an ankle bracelet.
I get my cheapo ones in bags of ten off eBay rotf That way when i break them, whoosh..no problem! *-*

I do have good ones for special days too tho ;)
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