first time dressed for gf

[Natalie Jones]

ok so friday night is the first time i dress for my gf,but not sure what to wear,i have come up with a choice of 3,any tips or ideas would be a great help
1..classy gok wan just below the knee black dress.
2.the sultry secretary look,or
3.jeans and t-shirt look.
Hmmmmmmmm lol
nat xxxxxx



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[SilverLady(SO)]

If it's your first time ever dressing for her, then go casual but not a sloppy casual - jeans and a nice blouse, but no T-shirt . . . better to not over-do it unless/until she's ready for it.

Most importantly: don't forget to let her know that you will be en femme that night . . . even though she may be fine with Natalie, if she's expecting "him" and instead finds "her", well, she deserves to have advance notice especially as she's never seen Natalie.


- SL

[DonnaT]

Nah!

Since she "loves" it, then go with No. 2. the sultry secretary look

[Karin]

Oh heck...just for concensus here..I'm going with the dress

I think that's one vote for each? Heehee. Hope were helping you Natalie!! Haha


I say the dress because your GF knows anyway, and is expecting to see something out of the norm? May as well go full bore on the girly, and there's nothing moreso than a dress for that. If it goes well, then the other looks will be nothing after the dress, so it'll be easier sailing after the weekend maybe?

Of course, like SL said tho, the big proviso is she is definitely definitely expecting to see girly? Shocks are not a good thing!

[Davita]

Late to offer my 1/2 cent I know, but I'm a casual Friday girl.

Is it too late to place the bets? I bet the Natalie did okay and I bet she went jeans. Any bets on what her GF wore?

Any bets on a PJ party?

[Ralitsa]

oooohhhh, a PJ party!! That could get exciting

I'd like to hear the juicy details about that one, but I'm not saying anything.......................

[TammyT]

If it's your first time ever dressing for her, then go casual but not a sloppy casual - jeans and a nice blouse, but no T-shirt . . . better to not over-do it unless/until she's ready for it.

Most importantly: don't forget to let her know that you will be en femme that night . . . even though she may be fine with Natalie, if she's expecting "him" and instead finds "her", well, she deserves to have advance notice especially as she's never seen Natalie.

I agree on the outfit and the advanced notice. From an outsider's perspective, I'm not sure that surprising your girlfriend is a good idea, but then again, no one knows the situation better than you. Just err on the side of caution, I reckon.