I sometimes am judgmental

[Rhanda]

Sometimes when I see what I think is a really attractive girl that isn't made up, I think that I would like to have those features so that I could use my knowledge of makeup and become devestating. Why do some girls waste the great canvas by leaving it blank?

Rhanda

[DonnaT]

If they like themselves for who they are, etc., then why should they cover it up?

[Noeleena]

Hi, Rhanda.

I wonder why so many younger women cover up thier faces as they look so lovely,

As youll see in my photo i have no makeup. just lippy and eye brow liner well i dont have any eyebrows at all now, so thats it, make up does nothing for myself, so i dont bother,

as i was thinking about what you said i thought, does the beauty of the person change in who's looking, is this about you as a dresser, or other, and how i see the person as i look at the inner beauty, and personality of the over all of the person, from a female perception,

or do we see the outer beauty in a different way, im not projecting my thoughts in how would i be had i her facial features, and maybe age comes in to this as well.

...noeleena...

[Kelly]

We have a friend of the family in her early 20's. We have known her since she was in 2nd or 3rd grade. She is a natural beauty and when she is made up she is an absolutely breath taking jaw dropping knock out.

We are close, one time I asked her why she doesn't glam up more often. her answer was interesting. She said that she doesn't want to be hit on by every low life she encounters. She went on to confide that sometimes she wished she wasn't pretty because of the constant unwanted attention she attracts.

This is, of course, anecdotal. But for her, anyway, a blessing we all wished we had is for her a curse. Kind of be careful what you wish for.

Kelly.

[Rhanda]

Noreena, You sell yourself short.
You have great facial features. and perfect looking teeth. Great smile. I believe that you could pass if you had a good makeup and a nice hairdo (wig).

Rhanda

[Rhanda]

I'm sorry, The above message was ment for Noeleena. I didn't notice the name was wrong untill it was too late.

[Gillian]

Quote from Kelly's comments; "one time I asked her why she doesn't glam up more often. her answer was interesting. She said that she doesn't want to be hit on by every low life she encounters. She went on to confide that sometimes she wished she wasn't pretty because of the constant unwanted attention she attracts."

I also know of a similar story. I knew a girl much younger than me who looked to me much as a father type figure. One day she lamented to me how she wished that she didn't get so much attention because she was so well endowed. In her words she said that guys thought she was easy because of her cup size. She was always getting "hit on", and so many comments were inappropriate. She didn't see a blessing, she saw a curse.