Hi you all.
For me the definition of a cross-dresser is determined by what that activity provides for a person emotionally. If it is not meeting an emotional need that can not be met by any other means then it is not considered as cross-dressing to me. (Certainly not healthy cross-dressing.)
Women as cross dressers
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Hello all,
I would just like to say, I am a very feminine woman, I "always" have been, but there are times when I "do" wear jeans and a tee shirt, to be practical and comfortable. I DO NOT concider myself a crossdresser when I do wear those things at all! I am always a feminine woman, no-matter what I am wearing, and when I do buy a tee shirt and jeans, etc., I buy them from a women's store. I don't shop for myself in a man's store.I don't wear men's clothes, I wear clothes made for me, a woman.
When I wear a tee shirt and jeans, I am not trying to pass as a man either. To me, they are just neutral clothes, clothes for comfort and even more practical to wear for some of the things that I need to do. Other wise if I just wore my mini-skirt , my hair perfectly done, my make-up always freshend, with pantyhose and 4"-5" heels, I wouldn't be able to get alot of the things I need to done, I would just sit around looking pretty all day, spending the extra time each and everyday getting all ready (to work in the yard or laundry, etc.),would be (to me) putting alot more responsiblities on my husband to take care of, because I wouldnn't want to ruin my "nice" clothes, but being a wife and a stay-at-home-mother of 2 young school age boys, I don't always have that kind of time to devote to myself, I do get dressed up quite often (don't get me wrong), I dress-up more than most of my friends do that go out to work everyday (the work place is more casual nowadays). When I get all of my things done, that need to be taken care of, I take the time for me (believe me).
So, NO, I don't consider myself a crossdresser
Love (SO)
I would just like to say, I am a very feminine woman, I "always" have been, but there are times when I "do" wear jeans and a tee shirt, to be practical and comfortable. I DO NOT concider myself a crossdresser when I do wear those things at all! I am always a feminine woman, no-matter what I am wearing, and when I do buy a tee shirt and jeans, etc., I buy them from a women's store. I don't shop for myself in a man's store.I don't wear men's clothes, I wear clothes made for me, a woman.
When I wear a tee shirt and jeans, I am not trying to pass as a man either. To me, they are just neutral clothes, clothes for comfort and even more practical to wear for some of the things that I need to do. Other wise if I just wore my mini-skirt , my hair perfectly done, my make-up always freshend, with pantyhose and 4"-5" heels, I wouldn't be able to get alot of the things I need to done, I would just sit around looking pretty all day, spending the extra time each and everyday getting all ready (to work in the yard or laundry, etc.),would be (to me) putting alot more responsiblities on my husband to take care of, because I wouldnn't want to ruin my "nice" clothes, but being a wife and a stay-at-home-mother of 2 young school age boys, I don't always have that kind of time to devote to myself, I do get dressed up quite often (don't get me wrong), I dress-up more than most of my friends do that go out to work everyday (the work place is more casual nowadays). When I get all of my things done, that need to be taken care of, I take the time for me (believe me).
So, NO, I don't consider myself a crossdresser
Love (SO)