Hello everyone, l'm a married straight mtf CD? I'm still not sure where I fit in or how I fit in. I seem to be one of the lucky ones, because my wife is fine with it and seems excited to dress with me. We been married for going on 7yrs and I only just told her about it last year. We just talked a out it and than kind of left it a lone until 2 weeks ago when I finally got up the courage dress in front of her. She's a little jealous that some of my clothes and shoes are cuter than some of her, but she has 2 pair I would kill to have in my size. I think coming out to her has been one of the most difficult things I've ever had to do, I mean I've been hiding it for so so long. It's was one of the best feelings in the world to have that burden lifted of my shoulders. Both my wife and I noticed I've been a completely different person since.
I always thought I was a freak and weird and the only person that did this. I never went looking to see if there were other out there like me. It makes me feel much more comfortable that my wifes knows and is super supportive and that there is a community of like minded people like me. Sorry for rambling, I just so glad to be open about this anf not be judged.
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Welcome and congrats on having a supportive wife. There are a lot of things that you'll both have to work through so take it one day at a time. All the girls are here to help. Don't be shy!
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Welcome, Riley.
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Hi, Riley!
So happy to hear that you have a supporting wife. I can understand how hard it can be to open up and come out to your SO... good for you for doing so!
So happy to hear that you have a supporting wife. I can understand how hard it can be to open up and come out to your SO... good for you for doing so!
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Hi, Riley, and welcome to the Haven! 
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It a great thing having ones wife know and accepting. I'm also one of the really lucky one who has this. Welcome to the site Riley nice to meet you hun. 
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Welcome Riley. It sounds like you have a good grasp on your life and the love and support of your wife. Jump in and maybe even get the wife involved. I am sure there are a lot who would your success story from both sides.Remember Ginger Rogers did everything Fred Astaire did only she did it backwards and in high heels!
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Nice to have you here, Riley! Give the wife a hug, you're a lucky person to have such a girl in your life!
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Hi Riley glad you found us welcome to our family hun.
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