Bumps on the road

How are you dealing with or handling this aspect of your life?

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Estefania
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Bumps on the road

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I haven't been around much. Lots and lots of work, and well, fact is that things at home are not going well. So just "lurking" as I don't really feel like participating much. I hope you all are doing well, and will enjoy the best season of the year (Fall season, and well, shopping season too!)

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Hope the "bumps" aren't too big, Gaby. Hang in there. Share your trials of family pressures lately.

Patience can help us through those times. (Love your Halloween pics!)

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Sorry to hear of your issues at home Gaby (you will always be Gaby to me). Life and family dynamics come to play in all relationships and not always in a positive manner. Keep your chin up for the light at the end of the tunnel is not always the oncoming train.

I hope you know we are here for you if you want to talk or vent or just looking for that proverbial shoulder to cry on if or when you feel the need. I hope for the best for you and the outcome is what you want and look forward to you coming back here soon, always love chatting with you. For now I will leave you with a big hug.

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Don't know if this is the empty nest thing. Sometimes that can be really tough, judging by what my dentist went through recently.
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Sorry to hear you have encountered the bumps in the road Gabriela. I pray you work through them and things go back to more of a normal state, that is if there is a really a normal/ :lol:
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Thank you for your words of encouragement. Very much needed these days.
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Hang in there, Gabriella!

We've all been there in one way or another, but things can only get better. Stay positive, be beautiful - things will turn around! (--)
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Sorry....hang in there...hopefully everything will be ok in time. Anne
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((G)) Gabby thoughts and prayers for smoother roads ahead for you and a little less :sick: .
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Gaby, my best wishes that these bumps in your personal life pass by quickly and that you and all in your life, find to cherish you as a person and one who has their own mind, character and soul. Life should always find a way for each and all of us as people to find better balance and personal happiness and acceptance. Be one a full trans girl, one who does them self up as a full crossdresser or only a partial cder, one should be afforded their own drive for satisfaction and acceptance in life.

We are all beautiful. ***()*** :yes:

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I hope the "bumps" are not "mountains" and everything goes well for you Gabriela.
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Thank you to all of you who took some time to reply.

Things have improved at home. They are not perfect, but well, they are a lot better than they were when I posted last. Of course my dressing is out of the picture, so to speak... which has me not depressed but it saddens me whenever I think about it.

I had to make time for me. I feel terrible it was behind my wife's back. It shouldn't be that way, but that is the only way to keep the status quo.

I will try to stop by when I can. Been isolated and alone in many ways.

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Gaby it is good to hear from you. I am glad things have improved and hope they continue to do so. Not fun to keep your femme side away from your wife, but as you know I have been there. ](*,) Not a good place to be but we do what we have to. I hope to see more of you. (--) You have friends here to listen and cheer you up. ((G))

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I am sorry you have to hide and bury the person inside and are not free to express who you are in whatever form that is. I lost my wife and was fortunate that she understood it was something I could not help because it is who I am...she gave me tolerance and allowed me to express myself under several rules. Looking back I can't imagine not being able to breath and be who I am...but If my wife were alive I would still prefer that because I loved her and she loved me...I suppose that is what you have to weigh....and live with whatever you have to accept.
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Been isolated and alone in many ways.
You're not alone in that. ;)
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