My SO found out today. I have been buying so of my stuff on EBay and she has an item on their and ask me why I was buying it. So I told the truth about it to her for the first time. Then we talked on the phone about it for a while. The first part was on the IM part. I explained it to her as best I could. I have given her this website to come too. When she gets over the shock I think she will. It went much better than I could have hoped.
A ten ton elephant is not off my chest. My only bad part that my 23 year old son found out at the same time which I did not want to happen. But the Lord know what he is doing, My wife and son have always been able to talk (alot of the time better than the wife and I do) so she will be able to get some help in talking with him about it.
As like some of the first times with the other SO's statements on this board. She was upset more with the lying than the CDing. But I have a feeling that part will come.
She will be in the driving seat on this one and she is going to set most if not all the rules on it. Maybe now I can get some sleep. Have not slept for 3 nights, slept about an hour and half last night is all. Gelinda Hope it will be ok.
All i can say to you Gelinda is im so glad it finally came out give her time she will hopefully work through her feelings with you, honestly i think im actually enjoying my husband more now since he came out fully to me, no more secrets and a big load of his chest and now i can understand why he was moody and depressed at times. Congrats and all the best i hope everything works out for you.
Well, Gee, I am glad that the "hiding" is over and if you can get your wife to visit us here and your son for that matter I think you know they will be welcomed and can get a lot of their questions answered. Keep us posted.
Love, Deborah
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First star to the right, then straight on 'till mornin!
Well ladies, It seems as if nothing has happened of course she is in texas and I am in kentucky and I have been without power since Tuesday due to the tornado. I have talked to my son on the web phone a couple of times and have told him we would have a private time when I get home again. He seems ok and the wife so far. She has not been to the website as of yet due to the storms in Dallas and my daughter in law being home. DIL is a big mouth so we have to hide it from her for now.
Truly, My wife has not be upset as of yet. Only really thing she was worried about was my work finding out and me shaving my chest hairs. As she but it, it took me a long time to get those hairs on your chest and they better stay there. HA HA .
We have not had a good time to talk, I just wish I would have been in texas in person to tell her rather than over the web and phone.
Hi Gelinda-
Like anyone else, I'm glad you don't have to lie and hide anymore. But what a strange way to be outed! What are the odds of that?
Nonetheless, "Man's accidents are God's purpose"--a saying that Mrs. Nathaniel Hawthorne scratched on a window with her diamond. (It was still there in 1963, when I visited the house.)
It is tough being away from your wife at a time like this, though.
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Anita, I know what you mean about a time like this. I have been doing this except for 3 months that last 3 years all most. It does get old being alone all the time. Especially with a new grandbaby there. and my first. gGee
Thanks for being her all you ladies make it easier to deal with it. The weekends are the worst but I am starting my Masters degree as of this week so I will not be bored so much. I need an excercise bike thou badly. Gee.
Hope it will be ok. 
