1): Are their varying degrees or stages of crossdressing?
2): Will my urge to dress in girlie panties, pantyhose and shoes lead to other more exotic desires?
3): Can I expect over time to want to look more feminine obtaining a wig, falsies, and clothing?
4): Will I want to go all the way wanting to applying facial make-up, eyeliner and rouge, then be compelled to wear jewelry becoming mor femine?
5): Once a person really gets into crossdressing doesn't society label you a transvestite?
6): Do crossdresssers have girlfriends or boyfriends?
7): Will I want to get a breast implant or live life a women one day?
8): What about sex? [edited] Will being a crossdresser change ones lifestyle and social patterns?
9) As I feminze can I expect my sex preferences to change?
I read nothing about sex questions in this forum; Is it therefore taboo to discuss or ask questions about oral, anal sex, and lifestyle changes?
Thank you
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QUESTIONS
HOPEFULLY I'M FORGIVEN ABOUT ITEMS IN QUESTION #8.
Can I open for discussion questions 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, part of 8, & 9.
What lies ahead for most crossdressers like myself?
Because crossdressing apparently is part of my character, lifestyle, image and inate personalty, will my internalized feminization esculate as I suspect over time?
Can I open for discussion questions 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, part of 8, & 9.
What lies ahead for most crossdressers like myself?
Because crossdressing apparently is part of my character, lifestyle, image and inate personalty, will my internalized feminization esculate as I suspect over time?
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1): Yes
2): Probably
3): Maybe, it's your decision
4): See previous answer
5): For all practical purposes, the two words are interchangeable
6): If you mean "are crossdressers straight or gay," the vast majority are straight
7): That's up to you
: Probably not -- whatever you're into as a CD, you would probably be into the same stuff if you weren't a CD. One has nothing to do with the other
9) See previous answer
10) Yes, preferably
2): Probably
3): Maybe, it's your decision
4): See previous answer
5): For all practical purposes, the two words are interchangeable
6): If you mean "are crossdressers straight or gay," the vast majority are straight
7): That's up to you
: Probably not -- whatever you're into as a CD, you would probably be into the same stuff if you weren't a CD. One has nothing to do with the other 9) See previous answer
10) Yes, preferably
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Re: QUESTIONS
Hi Billie,BillieMar wrote:HOPEFULLY I'M FORGIVEN ABOUT ITEMS IN QUESTION #8.
Can I open for discussion questions 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, part of 8, & 9.
What lies ahead for most crossdressers like myself?
Because crossdressing apparently is part of my character, lifestyle, image and inate personalty, will my internalized feminization esculate as I suspect over time?
No one was mad. There was no reason to feel like you needed to ask for forgiveness. Sorry if that's what we communicated.
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My humble reply ..
1.) Absolutely varying degrees, and probably the most usual way to find yourself in a different role. I went from just panties, to other lingerie, to now, dressing fully as I can. Everybodies path is a little different.
2.) Who knows. You'll reach your limit wether it will be determined by anxiety, impulse, or an SO. Just protect yourself from dangerous choices.
3.) I did. I imagine it might be possible for you as well. Especially since you seem to be speculating what comes next. The important part is if you feel comfortable doing want you do.
4.) same as #3
5.) Society! Maybe, if you decide to be out about your femme role. Though I'd have to honest in saying I'm not quite sure what labels are handed out by our enlightened society these days. What a Tv?
6.) Yes. I'm married for example. Lot's of SOs here to.
7.) Only you can answer that one. Some of the ladies here can help you by sharing info and experiences. Again, you're the one to determine these things.
8.) No. Your sexual preferences will change depending on many other things I would think. There is no rule that being enfemme requires that you look at life any other way than you do know. Are you gay, bisexual, straight?
9.) same as #8
10.) I should hope not, as long as the language is kept pudent. But then, I'm new here myself so I'll hope to see an answer about this from the regulars
If you're trying to pre-guess where you'll end up, you'll be suprised at how wrong you might have been in the end. If, as it sounds like, you're asking for permission to do any of this, don't. Noone else is your commander in chief.
regards,
Gwen
1.) Absolutely varying degrees, and probably the most usual way to find yourself in a different role. I went from just panties, to other lingerie, to now, dressing fully as I can. Everybodies path is a little different.
2.) Who knows. You'll reach your limit wether it will be determined by anxiety, impulse, or an SO. Just protect yourself from dangerous choices.
3.) I did. I imagine it might be possible for you as well. Especially since you seem to be speculating what comes next. The important part is if you feel comfortable doing want you do.
4.) same as #3
5.) Society! Maybe, if you decide to be out about your femme role. Though I'd have to honest in saying I'm not quite sure what labels are handed out by our enlightened society these days. What a Tv?
6.) Yes. I'm married for example. Lot's of SOs here to.
7.) Only you can answer that one. Some of the ladies here can help you by sharing info and experiences. Again, you're the one to determine these things.
8.) No. Your sexual preferences will change depending on many other things I would think. There is no rule that being enfemme requires that you look at life any other way than you do know. Are you gay, bisexual, straight?
9.) same as #8
10.) I should hope not, as long as the language is kept pudent. But then, I'm new here myself so I'll hope to see an answer about this from the regulars
If you're trying to pre-guess where you'll end up, you'll be suprised at how wrong you might have been in the end. If, as it sounds like, you're asking for permission to do any of this, don't. Noone else is your commander in chief.
regards,
Gwen
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1): Are their varying degrees or stages of crossdressing?
Yes. Stages and degrees of CD'rs. Some, like me, walk closer to the TS line, but TSs wouldn't want me either.
2): Will my urge to dress in girlie panties, pantyhose and shoes lead to other more exotic desires?
I have no idea where you exotic ideas may lead you.
3): Can I expect over time to want to look more feminine obtaining a wig, falsies, and clothing?
Depends on your flavor of CD'ing (or like you said stages/degrees) Gaven, for one has no desire to go further than wearing certain things.
4): Will I want to go all the way wanting to applying facial make-up, eyeliner and rouge, then be compelled to wear jewelry becoming mor femine?
See # 3.
5): Once a person really gets into crossdressing doesn't society label you a transvestite?
Dr. Phil does, but most people will refer to you as much worse by society. I refer to myself as Transgendered, but there are a quite a few things we can be called (even if they are nice).
6): Do crossdresssers have girlfriends or boyfriends?
I have a wife.
7): Will I want to get a breast implant or live life a women one day?
See #3
: What about sex? Will being a crossdresser change ones lifestyle and social patterns?
9) As I feminze can I expect my sex preferences to change?
I think I get what you mean. If you're gay or bi-sexual now CD'ing won't change that.
Yes. Stages and degrees of CD'rs. Some, like me, walk closer to the TS line, but TSs wouldn't want me either.
2): Will my urge to dress in girlie panties, pantyhose and shoes lead to other more exotic desires?
I have no idea where you exotic ideas may lead you.
3): Can I expect over time to want to look more feminine obtaining a wig, falsies, and clothing?
Depends on your flavor of CD'ing (or like you said stages/degrees) Gaven, for one has no desire to go further than wearing certain things.
4): Will I want to go all the way wanting to applying facial make-up, eyeliner and rouge, then be compelled to wear jewelry becoming mor femine?
See # 3.
5): Once a person really gets into crossdressing doesn't society label you a transvestite?
Dr. Phil does, but most people will refer to you as much worse by society. I refer to myself as Transgendered, but there are a quite a few things we can be called (even if they are nice).
6): Do crossdresssers have girlfriends or boyfriends?
I have a wife.
7): Will I want to get a breast implant or live life a women one day?
See #3
: What about sex? Will being a crossdresser change ones lifestyle and social patterns? 9) As I feminze can I expect my sex preferences to change?
I think I get what you mean. If you're gay or bi-sexual now CD'ing won't change that.
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Hi Billie!
Here's my personal opinion on the questions you raised....
): Are their varying degrees or stages of crossdressing?
Yes, there are many content with dressing in a few feminine garments while others feel the need to dress and present themselves completely as a woman
2): Will my urge to dress in girlie panties, pantyhose and shoes lead to other more exotic desires?
That is really something only time will tell. Everyone is different has their own reason for dressing what desires need to be fulfilled from it.
3): Can I expect over time to want to look more feminine obtaining a wig, falsies, and clothing?
Since you are asking this question leads me to think that yes, over time you will want to look more feminine. Most who I have met who asked this question 80% of the time felt the need as time progressed.
4): Will I want to go all the way wanting to applying facial make-up, eyeliner and rouge, then be compelled to wear jewelry becoming mor femine?
See answer #3
5): Once a person really gets into crossdressing doesn't society label you a transvestite?
That really depends upon who you're talking to....to some people every man in feminine clothing is a transvestite and to others the same man is a crossdresser. Personally I don't take offense to being called a transvestite, tranny or anything like that so long as they say it with a smile on their face.
6): Do crossdresssers have girlfriends or boyfriends?
Most of the crossdressers I know are straight, there are a few that are bi and even fewer that are gay. To have this desire is to love everything feminine including women!
7): Will I want to get a breast implant or live life a women one day?
The answer to that one is in your heart. Only you will know the answer to that one. It may take time before you realize where on this wide sprectrum of TC/TS you fit.
: What about sex? [edited] Will being a crossdresser change ones lifestyle and social patterns?
I'm my opinion, not at all. If you do end up being gay or bi it's because you want to be, not because of how you are dressed.
9) As I feminze can I expect my sex preferences to change?
See answer #8
Hugs,
Stef
Here's my personal opinion on the questions you raised....
): Are their varying degrees or stages of crossdressing?
Yes, there are many content with dressing in a few feminine garments while others feel the need to dress and present themselves completely as a woman
2): Will my urge to dress in girlie panties, pantyhose and shoes lead to other more exotic desires?
That is really something only time will tell. Everyone is different has their own reason for dressing what desires need to be fulfilled from it.
3): Can I expect over time to want to look more feminine obtaining a wig, falsies, and clothing?
Since you are asking this question leads me to think that yes, over time you will want to look more feminine. Most who I have met who asked this question 80% of the time felt the need as time progressed.
4): Will I want to go all the way wanting to applying facial make-up, eyeliner and rouge, then be compelled to wear jewelry becoming mor femine?
See answer #3
5): Once a person really gets into crossdressing doesn't society label you a transvestite?
That really depends upon who you're talking to....to some people every man in feminine clothing is a transvestite and to others the same man is a crossdresser. Personally I don't take offense to being called a transvestite, tranny or anything like that so long as they say it with a smile on their face.
6): Do crossdresssers have girlfriends or boyfriends?
Most of the crossdressers I know are straight, there are a few that are bi and even fewer that are gay. To have this desire is to love everything feminine including women!
7): Will I want to get a breast implant or live life a women one day?
The answer to that one is in your heart. Only you will know the answer to that one. It may take time before you realize where on this wide sprectrum of TC/TS you fit.
: What about sex? [edited] Will being a crossdresser change ones lifestyle and social patterns? I'm my opinion, not at all. If you do end up being gay or bi it's because you want to be, not because of how you are dressed.
9) As I feminze can I expect my sex preferences to change?
See answer #8
Hugs,
Stef
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Billiemar: I will answer your questions with one answer as the others have done better than I at the individual answers.
To me and all the reading I have done and with most things in life, It all depends on you. Can you control it or is it controlling you. I think most of us have had a time that it was controlling us. Then when we finally learned what it was and part of the why's then we started controlling it and allowing ourselves to grow at the pace that we needed it too. Then are so many controlling factors in it for a CD. Work, Wife, Kids and etc. I am 47 and been doing it for 35 or more years and have only in the last month or so admitted to myself that I am CD. SO it depends on you. Gee.
To me and all the reading I have done and with most things in life, It all depends on you. Can you control it or is it controlling you. I think most of us have had a time that it was controlling us. Then when we finally learned what it was and part of the why's then we started controlling it and allowing ourselves to grow at the pace that we needed it too. Then are so many controlling factors in it for a CD. Work, Wife, Kids and etc. I am 47 and been doing it for 35 or more years and have only in the last month or so admitted to myself that I am CD. SO it depends on you. Gee.
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Hi Billie,
Honey, go to the following website, print off all eight pages, read it re-read it make notes and find yourself."Jung's Anima Theory and How it Relates to Crossdressing" Carl Jung is preceived by many to be the "father of modern psychology."
http://ourworld.compuserve.com/homepage ... /anima.htm
I am married and very straight, and you will also find the SO's here to be a wonderful source of information. They are sme of the greatest GG's you will ever come in contact with, but first yoiu have to determine who "Billie" is and Jung's article will help you!
Love,
Deborah
Honey, go to the following website, print off all eight pages, read it re-read it make notes and find yourself."Jung's Anima Theory and How it Relates to Crossdressing" Carl Jung is preceived by many to be the "father of modern psychology."
http://ourworld.compuserve.com/homepage ... /anima.htm
I am married and very straight, and you will also find the SO's here to be a wonderful source of information. They are sme of the greatest GG's you will ever come in contact with, but first yoiu have to determine who "Billie" is and Jung's article will help you!
Love,
Deborah
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Hi Billie,
It looks like you have some good answers to your questions, but I feel that even tho we may all have similar factors that make us CD's , there is no universal answers to your questions. I myself dont think it would be right for me to say how you may progress in this aspect of life.
You are asking us to tell you how YOU may react to all this ?????
We are all different in ways and thats what makes us individualy special.
Cindy
It looks like you have some good answers to your questions, but I feel that even tho we may all have similar factors that make us CD's , there is no universal answers to your questions. I myself dont think it would be right for me to say how you may progress in this aspect of life.
You are asking us to tell you how YOU may react to all this ?????
We are all different in ways and thats what makes us individualy special.
Cindy
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REPLIEs tO MY QUESTIONS
Dear sweet c/d sisters:
Thank you all soooooo much ... each one of the respondes is fantastic!
Yes, I will check out the referenced website ... I appreciate the lead!
Have a lovely weekend everyone ..... stay well!
Luv :P
BillieMar
Thank you all soooooo much ... each one of the respondes is fantastic!
Yes, I will check out the referenced website ... I appreciate the lead!
Have a lovely weekend everyone ..... stay well!
Luv :P
BillieMar
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