I have been told repeatedly that the "male" of the species is attracted to the breasts of the "female" Whereas, the "female" is not necessarily attracted to the genitalia on a male. That while this feature is mechanically necessary and appreicated, the female of the species has a rather different point of view in this regard.
For this I cannot say of course in that respect. I have been rather specific in a classroom environment and gotten some pretty different answers on a privately completed question/answer sheet. The class being about 70/30 female/male and the age range from 24 - 61. The majority took the class for experience in "Gender Studies and Social Organization."
It is rather interesting to note that in many group studies, people will say one thing and write another on the same question when it comes to sexuality. So, as Anita pointed out, she can dress down physically and still feel complete. Meaning perhaps she has transistioned away from excessive dress and physical needs for superior breast enlargement to feel comfortable as any woman might feel with her given assets in any particular fashion. After all, not every woman in the "A" cup category feels a need to run out and get breast implants.
I think that we avoid the issue of "being comfortable" with modest improvements that do not attract some form of attention. After all, we like to receive compliments and perhaps we have mis-understood the meaning. Perhaps, dressing as a lady of means and value is not what some want.
I think this forum has proven that if anything, we are a diverse lot in the T* community and that in itself is worth study and self-examination. "The unexamined life is not worth living." ...Socrates (470 - 399 BC)...
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Danielle Marie