Multiple Questions About CD'ing

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Re: Multiple Questions About CD'ing

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BillieMar asked:

1): Are their varying degrees or stages of crossdressing?
Yes, but if you're true to yourself you will end up where you belong, which is always alright no matter where it may be. Don't feel pressure to go further or faster than you want to.

2): Will my urge to dress in girlie panties, pantyhose and shoes lead to other more exotic desires?
Maybe. But it equally may not. If you're a TS and haven't discovered ti just yet, then you will probably go further. Ditto if this is a sexual thing for you. Only you and time can answer this one!

3): Can I expect over time to want to look more feminine obtaining a wig, falsies, and clothing?
Probably. I mean, why not? You'll probably want to experiment but you might not stay there. See the last line the answer 2

4): Will I want to go all the way wanting to applying facial make-up, eyeliner and rouge, then be compelled to wear jewelry becoming mor femine? Ditto above

5): Once a person really gets into crossdressing doesn't society label you a transvestite? Not if you pass well, and not if they don't know about it. And really, who cares what they think? And if you do care what they think you're not going to for long if you're an "out" person!

6): Do crossdresssers have girlfriends or boyfriends?
Yes

7): Will I want to get a breast implant or live life a women one day?See answer 2

8): What about sex? [edited] Will being a crossdresser change ones lifestyle and social patterns?
Patterns may change or may not. Transgenderism, is inherent and already there in you. Hormone therapy(HRT)may change that in the long term but again it may not. And you aren't likely to go on HRT unless you're TS so don't worry about it.

9) As I feminze can I expect my sex preferences to change?
HRT sometimes does that, but equally does not. So it's not something to be concerned about; if you're that far along on HRT the world proably sees you as a woman anyway and won't bat an eyelash if you're out with a man.

I read nothing about sex questions in this forum; Is it therefore taboo to discuss or ask questions about oral, anal sex, and lifestyle changes?
I dunno, but Ms. B will let you know. I always say that if you're not certain about a post, then ask the owner/moderator FIRST. That's the civilized thing to do and if you were about to go too far, you'll be saved the embarassment of a pulled post and we'll be saved the anguish of seeing it.

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Re: Multiple Questions About CD'ing

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1): Are their varying degrees or stages of crossdressing? Of course

2): Will my urge to dress in girlie panties, pantyhose and shoes lead to other more exotic desires?
Like was posted by other people it depnds on you.
3): Can I expect over time to want to look more feminine obtaining a wig, falsies, and clothing? Again it depends on you. Like beauty pointed out I for the most part do not want to wear falsies and wigs. I am just in to clothes. I have no desire to pass as a woman.

4): Will I want to go all the way wanting to applying facial make-up, eyeliner and rouge, then be compelled to wear jewelry becoming mor femine? Not sure do you currently like makeup. I for one never liked makeup and I have had my sister put it on me.

5): Once a person really gets into crossdressing doesn't society label you a transvestite? The two terms truly mean the same thing it just depends on which side of the Atlantic you grew up on.

6): Do crossdresssers have girlfriends or boyfriends? Many do I do not and generally rather happy about it.

7): Will I want to get a breast implant or live life a women one day? do you think you want to now?
8): What about sex? [edited] Will being a crossdresser change ones lifestyle and social patterns? It will change your lifestyle and social pattern in the fact that you will have a differnt outlook on things then most other people. Comming to accept the fact that I am a crossdresser has caused me to look at the world differently.

9) As I feminze can I expect my sex preferences to change? No

I read nothing about sex questions in this forum; Is it therefore taboo to discuss or ask questions about oral, anal sex, and lifestyle changes? Well we keep this as rather G rated or PG rated. So graphic conversations about sex topics are not allowed. There are many other boards on the net for that if you would like. Try google with the filter off and see what you get.

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Answering questions

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Love this post and even more the responses. As for answers to those questions I'm still looking too.
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All I can add is that you may want to think of it as a line where one end is a person who occasionally will put on a pair of panties for a fetish fun and the other end being one who feels compelled to cut off their genitals, because they are so much in the wrong body....we all fit in there somewhere, not saying one is better or worse than the other....and you may waver up and back through your journey. It just depends on your personal make-up and who you are......time will bring it out :)
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Post by Wendy Seymone »

Hi Billie,

The girls have give you some excellent answers to the questions that you have. I understand your confusion, but those really are all questions that you will have to work out for yourself. Everyone is different sweetie.

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