Hi girls,
I am absolutely exhilerated. I just got back from the grocery store, post office, and yes, gas station.
I was wearing my sandals, a very nice top I bought at Wal-Mart, purple toenails, fusia fingernails, girls watch, bracelet, pink lipstick and really long earrings that look like a chain going through my peircings with a weight on each end. I was wearing kacky boys shorts, but they really look unisex.
It was great, I got treated the same as always. No on gawked, no rude commentsl In the grocery store I was not there 2 minutes and a man struck up a conversation with me about how things were shelved. Then again in line an older gentleman started a conversation with me. This is pretty normal for me, it seems people always talk to me. No one seemed uncomfortable and the store employees were their usual courtiousness.
At the post office I just checked my box and didn't really interact with anyone, but got friendly smiles returned to me, I presume because I had such a big smile on my face.
I got more ice at the gas station, but the clerk who wanted to see me was not there. There were two other girls who were polite, courteous, and did not stare too long.
I know this is probably not a big deal for many of you, but it was great to not be treated differently. It makes me feel good about my future. Anyway I am absolutely glowing right now. My aura must be visable right now.
I love all of you for giving your love, which has helped strengthen me to be the person I have always wanted to be.
Next time, I think we will add some mascara, and perhaps just a small eyeliner job.
Love always,
Elizabeth
OK, I did it I went out in almost 100% feminine attire.
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Elizabeth, This is so cool!!!!!, I am so happy for you, You sound so happy and excited . Good for you!!!!!!!!! Can say that a hurdle has been jumped and cleared.. Yes, yes you can hear the crowd cheering , it's up , it's up ........ it's a home run..........Couldn't be prouder to know you and to look up to you . Congratulations..........kristen
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Hi girls,
I am still feeling great. I finally emailed an old friend of mine and told him I was a crossdresser, and apologized for keeping this from him and his wife. He told me that the only thing that could change his opinion of me would be if I registered as a republican.
He then went on to tell me he has been wearing his wife's panties for years, and that she really hates it. And not to worry about being a crossdresser, and to call him. I feel all the energy, and it is all positive.
Love always,
Elizabeth
I am still feeling great. I finally emailed an old friend of mine and told him I was a crossdresser, and apologized for keeping this from him and his wife. He told me that the only thing that could change his opinion of me would be if I registered as a republican.
He then went on to tell me he has been wearing his wife's panties for years, and that she really hates it. And not to worry about being a crossdresser, and to call him. I feel all the energy, and it is all positive.
Love always,
Elizabeth
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Elizabeth, Nice to hear that your friend is a true friend, and that he wears the panties in his family. Seems to me that things are finally turning your way!!!!! I can see a new hope and positive way in your posts , so happy to see that!!! I am seeing a new Elizabeth , in your writings. I'm so Glad, I'm glad, I'm glad, I'm glad. ........Kristen
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Hi Richelle,
No I was not nervous because I don't care if I am passable, and it is not my problem if someone's feelings get hurt looking at me. They always have the option to look away. This is who I am, I am a part of this society, I have been a good citizen, paid my taxes, worked hard and I will not be denied the values of society simply because someone may be offended looking at me.
It seems that the people who are most offended are looking to be offended, and if I were not there to offend them, they would simply find something else. I mean, who has not wanted to call the "fashion police" on some people for the clothes they wear? Laff.
It felt great because for the first time ever I was out there, being me and not caring if anyone was offended.
Love always,
Elizabeth
No I was not nervous because I don't care if I am passable, and it is not my problem if someone's feelings get hurt looking at me. They always have the option to look away. This is who I am, I am a part of this society, I have been a good citizen, paid my taxes, worked hard and I will not be denied the values of society simply because someone may be offended looking at me.
It seems that the people who are most offended are looking to be offended, and if I were not there to offend them, they would simply find something else. I mean, who has not wanted to call the "fashion police" on some people for the clothes they wear? Laff.
It felt great because for the first time ever I was out there, being me and not caring if anyone was offended.
Love always,
Elizabeth
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Hi Elizabeth--
That's just great! If you went out in the daytime and all seemed well, then you'll be fine. People really can be very friendly when you're out, and I'm glad you got to experience that.
That is a trip about your friend! I have always wondered if anyone I know has been put on the spot that way--I'm telling them, but they don't want to tell me!
Crossdressing is very funny that way. Certainly strangers sharing their stories can be fine, but I'm not sure I'd want to hear my friends telling me about their CDing. It's just one of those things--I can feel fine about my crossdressing, and all of you crossdressing, and still not want to know that someone close to me also does it.
Guess it's the fact that it's such a 180 degree turn from who you thought you knew. So, like an SO, that would bother me initially. And it bothered me when I came out to friends for that reason.
I hadn't been "hiding" CDing or a femme identity--it hit me all at once. But my friends didn't know that, and probably figured I'd been holding out on them for years. That hurt to think that, and I did try to make it known that this development was new to me, too.
People on here, I've always known as CDs. Same for the CDs I meet out in public. I accept you easily because I've always known you this way. It's the "secret life" part of it that would get to me.
I did have one acquaintance who I found out about, because I met "her" at a support group. My, my, that was shocking! She had even worked for me, on a hired-gun basis.
But now we've become better friends than we ever were back in the eighties, when I met her.
That's just great! If you went out in the daytime and all seemed well, then you'll be fine. People really can be very friendly when you're out, and I'm glad you got to experience that.
That is a trip about your friend! I have always wondered if anyone I know has been put on the spot that way--I'm telling them, but they don't want to tell me!
Crossdressing is very funny that way. Certainly strangers sharing their stories can be fine, but I'm not sure I'd want to hear my friends telling me about their CDing. It's just one of those things--I can feel fine about my crossdressing, and all of you crossdressing, and still not want to know that someone close to me also does it.
Guess it's the fact that it's such a 180 degree turn from who you thought you knew. So, like an SO, that would bother me initially. And it bothered me when I came out to friends for that reason.
I hadn't been "hiding" CDing or a femme identity--it hit me all at once. But my friends didn't know that, and probably figured I'd been holding out on them for years. That hurt to think that, and I did try to make it known that this development was new to me, too.
People on here, I've always known as CDs. Same for the CDs I meet out in public. I accept you easily because I've always known you this way. It's the "secret life" part of it that would get to me.
I did have one acquaintance who I found out about, because I met "her" at a support group. My, my, that was shocking! She had even worked for me, on a hired-gun basis.
But now we've become better friends than we ever were back in the eighties, when I met her.
